Im a 16 yr. old girl. Believe it or not.. but I think I am an alcoholic. For the past year I have been drinking every weekend,, sometimes during the week. (I say about 3 or 4 times a week.) && I drink to get drunk. I just dont see myself having fun without drinking. I say I have a problem. Wat do you think? I love to drink.. but I know its unattractive. && I want guys to respect me. What should I do.. and how could I quit or understand that it is bad to drink (w/o AA meetings or anything like that.) I mean.. I kno it is.. but I dont understand it is.. if that makes since. I dont want to quit.. but I know I should & its really hard.
2007-01-03 15:59:52 · 2 answers · asked by Brandy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seek help. Guys respect women who respect themselves.
2007-01-03 16:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandy, get help. See a counselor. Talk to your local minister, rabbi, priest, or whatever. Talk to your parents. Talk to a school counselor. You recognize that drinking doesn't help you. All it does is mask the realities of life. You don't learn anything while you're drunk. Life just passes you by. Join the real world, get sober, get help. You have my prayers.
2007-01-04 00:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose your friends VERY carefully, ok? I doubt you drink alone. Get away from those people .... change your scene .... and just say no .... sounds cliche, but it is true ....
you can do it ... I did ....
one thing that happened to me was that I got really sick of the people I was with .... and I got sick of the way I felt, also .... I remember asking myself "... what am I turning into ..." and that scared me alot ...
you are a smart person .... at this time in your life it is really essential that you make the right decisions .... right .... now .....
2007-01-04 00:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋