You see, there's this guy... and he`s a celebrity.. not a Hollywood one.. no.. he`s a wrestler for the WWE... and I don`t only like him for his looks.... He makes my heart melt and he`s more than just a gorgeous piece of meat... his heart is bigger than the world. I know how he is outside of wrestling but I've never met him. I want him, I love him. I cry every day && night because I`m never gonna have him. Does God& Jesus think this is true love? And is it possible that I`ll ever be with this guy? Even though I'm 13 && he's 29 years old? Please help me. I`ve never experienced this heartbreak ever before in my life. Please.
2007-01-03 15:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by Alicia. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It IS John Cena.
2007-01-03 15:58:48 · update #1
Unless its John Cena, don't fall in love with him.
2007-01-03 15:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Alright, its an innocent crush really, an infatuation with a person, you are 13, your hormones are rampant during that age. Honestly, the chances are slim because you are so young. But to answer the original question without the specifics, you can fall inlove with a celebrity, they are regular people just like us, they just have a certain title to there name. You might need to scan your heart and protect it. Because there are bigger things in the world to worry about at this point, but I guess if you are 13 its hard not to worry. You will do fine, with time, the feeling will disappear. God Bless
P.S. what the Guy said above me is pretty much right on the money. :)
2007-01-03 16:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by mogler_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun... I don't want to offend, and I can't even offer an answer from a religious point of few, but..
Enjoy your liking him, but please don't try to put too much desperation on this. Given the age difference (I won't even go into the 'celebrity' thing), you know as well as any of us that it is a really slim about non existent chance. I'm sorry. I don't really want to say that, but it's the truth, ya know? If this guy is a single 29 year old, at his age he deserves to be able to find the right woman in this time frame and have his life. It would be a long time and unfair to him to wait until you are into your twenties and ready to have a family and whatnot.
Don't feel you have to stop liking him, but understand that (and I can tell by your type of writing about him), it's more infatuation then it is "love." And at your age, that's ok, enjoy it, but try not to obsess and let yourself cry over it. It will only cause you more heartache.
2007-01-03 16:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have what is called a crush. Almost every person gets them at some point in life, but it usually falls around the age you are right now. Because everyone is different, some crushes are more intense than others. This is what you are experiencing. You will not believe me now, and you won't want to believe me now, but in a few years, your emotions for him will have cooled off some, if not completely. (It's called hormones. And they can create INTENSE feelings.
By the way, I'm 28, and I still have crushes on celebrities. I just recognize that they are nothing more than crushes, and that real, true love goes much deeper than this.
2007-01-03 16:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart this is not love you are 13 and this is a grown 29 year old man. Find a hobby and get your mind off of this man.
It is illegal first of all so if you do get him he is going to jail so that is the first problem. Find a boy your own age but I think you need to be more secure in who you are first as a young lady. Find an older confident, nice, wise, intelligent God fearing woman and allow her to mentor you so you will know how valuable you really are.
2007-01-03 16:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Hope this helps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a somewhat simular position, and while I can't answer for God, I can tell you it gets better after a while.
Plus, don't hedge everything on how well you "know" him. People only show their true colors when they're drunk, angry, or scared. To say you know him but never met him implies that you've seen him somewhere else through the media, which is a poor glass to look through to judge someone.
I'm sorry for how you feel, but you'll have to endure, and if you do, I promise it will get better.
2007-01-03 16:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Gothic Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, are you serious? If you've never met him "nor" speak with him, he doesn't know you exist. Don't mean to burst you bubble but you are being very unrealistic. You have a hard crush on an WWF wrestler from TV, that is it. Nothing more. Stop obsessing over him on look to boys at least in your own age group for a love interest.
2007-01-03 16:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by gord's360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible, there is nothing to say you cannot be in love with a celebrity. A celebrity is just another person.
The bible does tell us though that we should not be dissimilarly yoked (2 Cor 6:14). Also to flee youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace... (2 Tim 2:22)
Also, "in nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God." Phil 4:6.
2007-01-03 16:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is called Idle worship. Jesus is not God He is the son of God Or why would he say "My Father is greater than I." He also said " Give up all you have and follow me." SO give up this hankering it is only misery and illusion and does one no good. go to gospelofthenazirenes. for the original teachings of Christ before King Constantine changed so many things, if you are a sincere seeker of truth.
2007-01-03 16:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look for a young man your age. God doesn't want us to idolize people. He has someone special for you when you get older. You need to wait on Him, and pray that He brings a godly man to you when you are old enough. Don't put all your hope in something that is not possible.
2007-01-03 16:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by salvation 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A conceited and self-admiring person is disliked by others; charity and alms are the best remedy for ailments and calamities; one has to account in the next world for the deeds that he has done in this world.
2007-01-03 16:03:40 · answer #11 · answered by MUHAMMAD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋