i get baby from him but until now i can't forget him,he get married already but still keep on touch by e-mail asking for his son coz he never had one. im hurting everytime my baby asking me where's my father because he is only 2 years old last time they met.
2007-01-03 15:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by kickers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You probably won't ever "forget" him because apparently he is still inquiring about and has an interest in his son. When you decide it's time for you to move on and make a life for yourself and your son, I suspect the hurt you're feeling won't be so overwhelming. Keep yourself and your son busy with fun activities and bonding - he needs you to be strong for him and not hurting.
I wish you peace and the strength to move on. Good luck.
2007-01-03 15:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by ☼High☼Voltage☼Blonde☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really hard one, but he left you holding the baby and he should be ashamed of himself. I'm sure you loved him but there isn't much you can do to get him back, and you'll probably have to be involved with him for the rest of your son's life since he's the father. You should make an effort to convince him to have regular visitation with your son, because it would be good for him. More than likely you will have to move on, although that is extremely difficult since you carry the baggage that comes wiht having a baby by a previous relationship. Try and keep your chin up and enjoy that little boy, he is the most precious thing you will ever have in your life.
2007-01-03 16:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by mommy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will ALWAYS be the father, no matter what he does, how many other kids he has, who you marry or how many other kids you might have. This is important for your son. Don't make the boy an instrument of fighting between the two of you. He will do the best he can to have a relationship...not necessarily what you think he should do but what he feels he is capable of. Don't judge him on this. As far as "forgetting" him, you can't as long as he is alive and your son is alive. What you can do is move on with your own life and learn to accept yourself without him. You are great just as you are. He has chosen a different life...that's his loss. You make your own life. Good luck and god bless.
2007-01-03 16:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it may take sometime to forget about him but it will happen. I can't believe you still have time to think about him when you have a child to take care of. As long as your child keeps you busy and you're working..it should consume most of your time. Why is he asking for his son through email? Can't he contact him by phone or meet you guys somewhere so he can see his son? If he's so concerned about not being able to see his son and claiming thats the only son he has..then he needs to make more of an effort to see him.
He doesn't sound much of a man to me so it should be easy to forget him. He shouldn't have anything come between him and the relationship he should be building with his son.
2007-01-03 16:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately should remember his father, but if you are truely afraid he will forget him, bring along some pictures and videos of his father and let him watch it everyday or put the picture where the child can see it all the time. Also make sure you talk to him about his father on a regular basis.
2016-03-16 23:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 18 years to forget the man you 'get baby from'. Relax.
Children grow up best with two loving parents.
2007-01-03 16:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to forget about him and move on. You can find someone who is going to want to be a father to your son. His dad is not part of his life and that's his choice. You have to move on with your life. If your son asks, tell him he moved far away. For now, then you can explain when he is older.
2007-01-03 15:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he helps you with child support then let them be in touch every so often but if he doesnt help then say forget it. It will hurt for alittle while because you have that bond with the ex bo. That is what my sister did because it is hard to be a single mom???
2007-01-03 16:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by volleyballgurl10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't forget the father of your baby. Just curious what country are you from
I am from America but you are not
2007-01-03 16:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be friends for the sake of the baby. But please move on. He sure has. Make sure you get "child support " he may not bug you so much about the baby then. And you can move on easier.
Theres a much more worthy guy out there for you! Take care of your body and your mind :)
Good Luck!
2007-01-03 16:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger Crane Master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋