I have a problem! I really, really like this guy and i'm pritty sure that he dosn't like me. Help!?

Question

I don't want a " get over him answer" I want to know ... i don't know advice. Because i've tryed to get over him and it just isn't working... I really really really like him. And there is a posibilitly that he likes me, i'm just not bold enough to ask
Many thanks
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I am 15 and he is one of my best friends

Answer 1

Why waste your time on someone you know doesn't feel the same way you do?

Answer 2

study first and think well why do you like him, before making any move ask yourself this questions
1. is he worth it
2. are you thinking about him just because you are bored
3. will you be happy together even if its just in your imagination
4, how much are you willing to give
5. dont you want things to just be all natural
if he is for you then he is for you , no need to chase him
6. you could tell your feelings to him in a letter, but be ready for a possible rejection, atleast you've tried to ease the agony inside your mind
just go tell him, in a letter, if you cant face him,.
its pretty hard if you go tell it to his face,
first atleast try to give him hints,
if he does not get it
then he is just not really that in to you
but you can also wait for a little more
patience is a virtue, rushing is no good

Answer 3

Tell him, and ask him. Always let the people you deal with know who and where you are. They'll either appreciate you for it, or not. If they don't, you'll at least know who and where they are, too. But you have to have the courage and self-confidence to accept the consequences. That's how we learn. There's no point going through life with your head in a bag. Or pretending to be other than you are for the sake of others' approval.

Answer 4

There are no other answers. Either ask him out, or get over him! Nothing will ever get accomplished by you sitting around and pining over him. If he's not interested in you, then why bother with him! There are plenty of other guys out there ... don't waste your time on someone who doesn't see how special you are.

Answer 5

Here is the thing that I told my self. I was once in that situation. I am going to tell you what I told my self. I will not sweat no body that does not sweat me. All you are doing is wasting your time and cheating yourself out of meeting someone that can really like you. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

You need to get buzzed at a party with him, or at least pretend to. Then while you are "drunk", go act all flirty with him, and if he goes with the flirtiness, then he likes you, but if he says "get away" or somethin like that then obviously he doesn't. In the case he doesn't like you, the next day just apologize to him and blame your actions on the alcohol and that it was the alcohol talking not you. Worked for a lot of friends of mine.

Answer 7

Your introduction says you are pretty sure that the DOESN'T like you... then the body of your question says there is a possibility that he likes you? Which is it?

If there is a possibility that he likes you, be bold and ask him. If you know he doesn't like you... move on.

How old are you?

Answer 8

And I'm Pretty, pretty, pretty sure that you sound like a total twit. Grow up. Do your homework. Learn to spell. Quit thinking about your little coozie.

Answer 9

If a guy liked you, you wouldnt be able to get rid of him! He's really not into you....It may sound harsh but its the truth....Find someone who really likes you....You will be happy in the long run

Answer 10

You have a choice. Ask him out for a coffee (or somthing similar) or continue living in no-mans land. At least you will find out for sure.