I met this girl at the club and we hit it off so well. But she lives in San Francs. and I am in LA.
She's gone but I am ust CRAZY about her and missing her so much...
My logic tells me it is not possible for two just-met persons 2 have a long relationship..
but I reeeaally like her.. I know guys are supposed to decide those things, so do you guys think I should just forget about everything standing in the way and go for it?
Thanks, I am pretty confussed now
2007-01-03 15:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you guys....
you guys put a smile on my face:)
2007-01-03 15:18:35 · update #1
Of all the words of voice and pen, the saddest by far is "what might have been". I think I got the quote wrong, but you get the point! Go for it!
2007-01-03 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by shannon d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a lot of things - how old are you? Do you feel like you are ready for a serious relationship? Have you cheated on any of your exes? Is she a party girl? If you are young (say 20 21) then forget it. Unless you're not into going out to bars and experiencing your twenties AT ALL. If you don't feel you're ready for something serious, then why bother - have respect for her and don't waste her time. If you've cheated on girlfriends in the past, again, don't waste her time. If she's a party girl, forget it - it will cause you more misery than it is worth, and she'll be out at bars so drunk that she won't remember making out with the bartender after closing down the club.
2007-01-03 15:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a situation like that too... I am just gonna try and forget about her. I haven't been able to do it yet, and if I cant, I'm gonna try and have a relationship with her...
I hope this works out better for you then it has for me
2007-01-03 15:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by b1eler1720 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not just go for it? You have nothing to lose, but maybe more to gain. You'll never know what could have been if you don't take that chance now. Anything can happen, but isn't it better to know?
2007-01-03 15:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should believe in divine intervention. I met someone who wasn't supposed to be there, and after almost a year, it was as if it were yesterday.
2007-01-03 15:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is standing on your way, the fact that she lives 4 hours away? you can call her, send her email, meet her on week ends and if she likes you or likes her, either one of you will decide to give up where he or she lives and join the other one.
2007-01-03 15:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sniffeur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two would to be in a relationship, it would be long distance i assume, im not exactly sure how far those two cities are
be careful with long distance relationships, for the relationship is all mental, and hardly physical
2007-01-03 15:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it...life is way to short to sit around and wait for miracles...hurry catch the next plane before its too late.
2007-01-03 15:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are infatuated! Forget about her! If you persue her, she will own you like the little vudoo doll she keeps in her purse! No, seriously, ask yourself how rediculous it would be to persue her?
2007-01-03 15:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for her!, use your intuition sometimes, its worse if you did not try everything you can do about it, if it does not work its just fine you will get hurt but atleast you will not grow old asking yourself what if?
2007-01-03 15:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋