He was frustrated at the moment and nervous because someone had been bothering us and we had to explain to my father what the guy had been doing, and he used an inappropriate term for.. crotch.. should he apologize or let it be and hope everything is forgotten.. he is really embarrased about it since it was a complete accident.
2007-01-03 15:00:55 · 12 answers · asked by simply_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go. You are father is an adult and it sounds you and your boyfriend are on the way to becoming adults. He got carried away and emotional and let the term slip. Write it off as that and move on. No need to make a big deal out of it. Sounds like your boyfriend is embarrased and making a mountain out of mole hill.
If it really bothers your boyfriend, speak to your dad about it. He will most likely tell you he understands it was slip. Then you can rely the information to your boyfriend or next time he is over, just have your dad quickly reassure him things are fine.
2007-01-03 15:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things that "pop-out" of ones mouth that later causes embarassment, followed up with a feeling to apologize. If that is what happened then tell your boyfriend if he can live with what he said, forget it, if not, do the right thing and apologize for his description of what happened. He will feel better, learn something from the experience and your father will look at him differently.
2007-01-03 15:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gloria J P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your father tells you something about it then tell him that your boy friend has been wanting to apologize to him but you though it best if he didn't even bring up that embarrassing word again. If you think your father is still thinking about it tell him that your boyfriend wants to apologize to him, but if your father is not saying anything then just let it go
2007-01-03 15:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he should apologize. It would probably show your father that your boyfriend is a respectable guy who knows when he makes a mistake.
2007-01-03 15:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 10:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it was an accident and he is embarrassed about it he should apologize. He'll feel better and your father will appreciate it.
2007-01-03 20:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely he should talk with your father. Your father was young once and I'm sure he'll surprise you at how cool he will be. Besides, your boyfriend owning up to his mistake will show your dad his integrity and maturity! That'll be a huge plus for ya'll!
Good luck!
2007-01-03 15:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on how your father really feels about it. It's probably best to apologize, shows class.
2007-01-03 15:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should if he wants to earn your father's respect. Might come in handy in the future!
2007-01-03 15:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's simple...."does your boyfriend love and respect you enough to respect your father as you would?"
ME
2007-01-03 15:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by YouAsked 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋