Ok, so, when I have a thing for a guy, I tend to set my sights only on him. I'm a one-man-kinda-gal, so it's hard for me to flirt up a storm and 'play the field'... I'd much rather focus all my attention on one that I truly care about...
There's a guy that I'm really, really into right now... and have been for awhile...
But, the thing is, that he'll pretty much never date me or anything...
I'm finding it so hard to move on. There are so many guys that I could set my sights on, yet I only want this one. I feel like I won't be satisfied with anyone but him...
What can I do? Do I just keep pursuing him, and hoping that things change? How can I stop myself from wanting him?
2007-01-03 14:58:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To suzi & the girl under her:
It's pretty difficult for me, because no one ever wants me. Literally. Whenever I even start think that I guy is interested, it turns out that he isn't. It's painful, and I just feel like giving up on guys all together.
2007-01-03 15:05:29 · update #1
Find somebody who will appreciate you devotion to them. If you choose to devote yourself to somebody who doesn't return your devotion, it will turn into frustration on your part.
2007-01-03 15:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by urbanfossil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'd suggest either forgetting about him (which often times has a very positive effect on their attention) or throw yourself into it completely. I think we learn to regulate pain and so we only pursue a potentially lost cause accordingly, little by little, so the pain is small and bearable. Jump in or jump out. That's my two cents. Either way, I guarantee you'll get his attention.
2007-01-03 23:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's full of himself and ur stupid sorry go have some mind blowing sex with a man who wants u girl
2007-01-03 23:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you control yourself go out with friends. if this guy doesnt respond to your flirting it means hes not interested dont get to caught up in the chase. Let someone chase you instead :)
my best to you..
2007-01-03 23:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you want it bad and if or when he turns you down that should hurt your feelings enogh to make you want to move on. if he gives it to you you win. so either way your good
2007-01-03 23:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-03 22:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋