I like four guys.....Ray....Steven.....Dean....Darrin...well I have liked Steven the longest but New Years eve his ex was at the party we were at and he was all over her and it made me jelous and i was pissed so i went to ray because he was flirting with me and so i started flirting back thinking it was harmless and i forgot my friend liked him and i kissed him alot....and then i startd liking him. Well then there is this really really hot guy named Dean and he is so HOT!!! and I would date him but last time we dated we never got to see each other but it was during summer....but now that we are in school i would see him alot.....then there is this guy named darrin he is so sweet but....he dated my sister....but I think I really like him and we are hanging out this weekend and I dont know what to do I think I like them all equally someone HELP ME!!!
2007-01-03 14:42:32 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah...and dean cheated on me because i didnt see him for 2 weeks
2007-01-03 15:09:08 · update #1
Oh my god!! lol. what the hell? ok....well it seems the only one you can be with without any complications is dean. steven's ex is in picture, which is no good, and a relationship full of jealousy doesn't work.....ray..well if your friend likes him then he is off limits!! big time! and darrin dated your sister?!?!?!? EEEEEEEEEEWWW! gross! Dean is the only way to go. Though by the sounds of it you don't wanna settle down with just one guy!? if you like them all equally then you can't like any of them that much, it's all just crushes. just wait till someone you really like comes along.
2007-01-03 14:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by purple__penguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dean is your safest bet by far. Steven sounds like a loser who is very inconsiderate and young. Darrin is not worth it at all. Family should always come first. Keep your options open and meet up with Dean but scratch the other two off your list.
2007-01-03 14:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by alexis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in that same predicament. The only thing i coud suggest is that you go with the one that you have the strongest feelings for and could also see yourself with in the near and distant future. Flirts are different from those you really want to be with;and that boy Steven was trying to make you jealous. If they know that you like them, and see how you are aound them, they'll do things to make you jealous because they know how you feel about them. Just play it cool. You going to make him jealous with another dude isn't really solving anything. It's only pleasure for a short period of time. So like I said previously, go with the one that you have the strongest feelings for.
Hope I helped you a little bit...
2007-01-03 14:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Hot_Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have five real choices. Date Ray, Date Steve, Date Dea, Date Steven or date none of them. The answer to your problem is simple. I call it the Duh! Solution. You make a decision any decision and handle the consequences equally. In this instance you seem to be pulled in four directions equally. I would advise you choose none of them and keep them as friends. When you choose one temptation, you can never have true happiness if an equal desire or lust is present to tempt you away from true happiness. Find a fifth guy outside the circle and choose him.
2007-01-03 14:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Darrin sounds really sweet and Ray sounds really cool but i wuold go with Darrin over all of the others but thats just me - I love guys that r sweet!!!!!!!!
2007-01-03 14:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by tishapixi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you find a different guy. Maybe one with no strings attached. You seem to have some issue with all four of these guys. By the way, liking more than one guy at a time means even more heartbreak at once. Slow down, there's plenty of time for guys.
2007-01-03 14:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not the only 1 with guy probs but u should go out with 1 4 a week then go out with another 1 4 a week then another then another and at the end u find out wich 1 u liked the most
2007-01-03 14:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~emo~elf~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for true love, take a break. Go hang out with friends, eat sushi or play computer games and avoid flirting with any of them for a while. Then you know who you like the most.
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2007-01-03 14:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by Luth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give a quiz to each of them and try to find out who likes you most, who appreciate you, not who is just looking for a body or good face or sex. try to picture yourself with each of them in the long run not the short run.try to find who is more resposible. life is too short find a mate and enjoy it together. Good luck
2007-01-03 14:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sniffeur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont act like a ho. if you want to go with one of thiese guys i vote darrin.
2007-01-03 14:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋