I swear, I can't understand it.
How can you let go of your insecurities, when you have sex, when you know that you're not perfect? I know no one is, but...
How do you expect to please a partner, when youve got jiggly thighs and a chubby tummy... AND even really small bewbs...
It's what keeps me from having sex, basically. When I fall for a guy, I don't notice their flaws. I think they're perfect, no matter what, but I know that no guy is going to be totally satisfied with me and I shouldn't expect them to be... right?
They're gonna think my body's gross...
How do you let all of this go, when you make love with someone?
Also, how the hell would someone react when they realize that you've been wearing a padded bra, are smaller than they thought, and pretty much look better clothed?
(clothed, I look hella skinny, with small, but nice bewbs. naked, i'm jiggly, chubby, and am less than a third of an a cup...)
2007-01-03 14:37:57 · 10 answers · asked by La-La-Lacie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, exclude perfect from your vocabulary. You know, probably a man invented that word to summarize his idealistic woman on a pedestal. (No offense to any man that may read this.) The thing is if you don't see your positive qualities first than the man won't either. And, which I am hoping, you will really get to know a certain man first and then want to progress further. If a man truly knows your faults and you know his..... sex should be pretty wonderful. Because it is real - no secrets - no padded bras (which all woman secretly wear).
2007-01-03 14:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by sarahbelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose u shouldn't worry too much about it. If a guy likes u then he wouldn't be complaining. U're right, nobody's perfect. I have small 'bewbs' too and what my last ex said was they're kinda cute. Just brush up on ur love-making techniques and the guy shouldn't have the head to think!
2007-01-03 14:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by sugarscamp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything except the breasts will be fine.
The only reason the breasts won't be fine is that guys don't like to be deceived.
Stop the padding and start letting the reality be seen. Remember that the bit the guys are most interested in is the nipple and they see much nearer the nipple on flat girls than on others.
2007-01-06 07:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(a) do not have sex for one year
(b) go to the gym
(c) get breast enlargement surgery
(d) smile knowing that if you do (a), (b) and (c) you will be much more secure next year.
The great thing about being down in the dumps is knowing things can only get better.
2007-01-03 15:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mardy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot depends on how much love exists between you and that guy. He is not perfect, and he should not expect you to treat him as such, so if he treats you badly because of your "flaws", maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship.
2007-01-03 14:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by crash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they thought ur body was gross they wouldnt be having sex with you. **** during sex is one time i dont worry bout my fat ***. lol just relax like i said they would be wit u if they were turned off!
2007-01-03 14:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the lights, and dont worry about it.
2007-01-03 14:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by tequilagold_32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are deciding what the guy will like and not like. Let him decide...you may be pleasantly surprised.
2007-01-03 14:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all know our own faults.
You have to learn to live with them or they will become your downfall
2007-01-03 14:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have some serious body issues
flat is ok too
2007-01-03 14:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋