well if your a woman/girl you know that guys like to play games w/our heads and make us fall for them then they tell us basically they arent interested....well i decided to turn the tables on the guys this time && play their game but i hurt a great guy in the process...as i continued to play him day after day i realized he was actually seriously starting to like me so i decided to fess up and tell him what exactly i was trying to do i said you know u are so sweet but i just wanted to see how guys felt when they played girls & tricked them into liking them,so i have been pretending to like you...actually he is very attractive and amazing in every way but i just wasnt attracted to him in that way and i confessed that too....but after i said evrything i felt even worse, he text me and said u have no idea how much i like u & cared for you, he said i cant believe u would do this, its un-believable...i just want to hear ur comments on this please tell...
2007-01-03 14:02:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we werent actually dating like boyfriend and girlfriend and many guys have done this to girls before and me plenty so hell why not give it a try and he has played some of my friends before
2007-01-03 14:12:18 · update #1
ur a jerk not all guys do that only a few... they are the only ones who get girls without girls talking to them(doesn't happen to much)
Note to answer above me- You are a sick nasty perv... no i will NOT click there
2007-01-03 14:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should stop and think how they would feel if they were played. I bet you would not like it and yet you did this to a very sweet guy and now he may never trust a girl again. The guys that do play games with girls emotions have no integrity and I guess they like the drama in their life. Or maybe Bragging rights. None of which is very mature. I just hope you can repair the damage you have done and give this boy back his trust and honesty. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-03 14:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how the girl ends up feeling this great guy ended up the same way im sorry that this guy got hurt it is your fault for turning the tables on him but even though you caused this it doesnt feel like its really your fault i dont know what you should say to the guy the only thing you can say is ''im sorry''
2007-01-03 14:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. What happened to "do unto others as you would have done to you"? Just because guys play girls doesn't make it right. There are plenty of girls that play guys too. The reason that guys/girls think it is ok to play girls/guys is because they get what they want from the guys/girls they play. I am not trying to sound "holier-than-thou" (that's not who I am); all I am saying is that if more guys/girls would look before they leap, maybe more guys/girls would be less players.
2007-01-03 14:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by grey_fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he wasnt a player and you did that...shame shame shame...Somewhere down the line Karma will come back to you. That is always good to remember.
Hopefully you have learned some empathy. Being that your not attracted to him and he is an all around great guy, maybe introduce him to a great girlfriend of yours. At least try to right your wrong....good luck
2007-01-03 14:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you played him, and he's a nice guy, and he got hurt. It sux to be hurt and it sux to do the hurting. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. What are you going to do? Keep seeing someone you are not interested in because you don't want him to feel bad? He'll live, and so will you and perhaps you will both be the wiser the next time around.
2007-01-03 14:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by vomommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be a little ashamed of yourself. Why sink to the level of the lowest common denominator of society and play head games with anyone? You know better and I hope you'll learn a lesson from this.
2007-01-03 14:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy Chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty low of you... haven't you evr heard of the Golden Rule
" Treat others like you wnat to be treated"
So if you hate the guys treating you like crap... why'd you do it to a guy. Especially one who didn't do anything to you in the first place! Imean come on girl that was just plain cruel and stupid of you. I don't blame that guy for dumping you, what would you have done if it had been the other way around!!
2007-01-03 14:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a horrible person to intentionally hurt someone. I always thought went thing happened like this is was due to bad communications.
I was wrong I am starting to see what some guys say is true
2007-01-03 14:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I think you should work on your grammar. You should probably focus more on school, rather than games. Your interest in boys and their games is clear without you even having to say anything. Thanks for showing the world how dumb you really are.
P.s. This is not a game!
2007-01-03 14:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Andy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea you played him. So now he'll do that to some other girl and the endless 'game playing' will never end. Good JOB!
2007-01-03 14:07:42 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋