What should i talk about on a first date?

Question

i've been on quite a few dates but always struggled with the talking part.. I just met this girl and we will going on a date.. But what are some good things to talk about or how should i get a convo started??

Answer 1

Hobbies, movies, music, tv, anything really. Ask about family, school, just anything to keep the ball moving. Awkward silences can really kill a first date situation.

Answer 2

It's always a good idea to ask questions-it takes the pressure off of you talking about yourself and also makes the woman feel like you are interested in her. The last thing you want to do is go on and on about yourself. Keep the conversation light-a first date shouldn't seem like an interview. Keep it light, airy and humorous-make her laugh. If she's interested you will know it. She will want to be touchy-feely and she will flirt with you. Don't act overly-interested. Act like you have 10 more dates later in the week. Don't be too available either-you have to maintain her interest, and not grovel. Wait a few days to call her back, let her know you had a good time, and be very specific about the next date, not something like, Uh, hey, you want to do something again sometime?"-wrong question! Women hate a pushover, and they love a challenge. Be the Man-make the first date an occasion to see if YOU want HER, not vice versa. Have fun, treat her like a gentleman. If it's right you will both know it. The worst thing you can ever do is try to make the wrong woman into the right one-it should feel casual and natural, or else lose her phone number and move on-there's a new train coming into the station every hour Bro.

Answer 3

Talk about the same things you would with a friend.
One thing I learned about conversation- was to keep it going- answer a question with a question. That leads the person you are speaking to to give more then a one word answer. If they say yes or no to a question- you ask why.
After a few of those eventually a conversation starts to flow. I have tried that a number of times and it is quite interesting how it works.
Good luck!

Answer 4

Due to the fact that women do most of the talking in a relationship, this is your time to get to know her. Be interested in her. Look at her often and make eye contact. Put on your best smile, Tiger!
Get her to tell you about herself and the things she enjoys doing, what she would like to try. Find out career goals, if any.
Hopefully, you would discover a soul mate, a person who you can share your life with.
If what she said for the past few hours did not appeal to you, when you get your chance to say a few words about yourself, mention how you keep a ball gag in your car and how you just redecorated your dungeon. If she was on her cell phone more than once feel free to improvise a gag out of the annoying little device. Please ensure that you position the buttons out so that you may have an entire weekend free to savor the terror only an experienced Master can unleash upon such an undeserving waste of time.

Answer 5

Well it depends if you met randomly at a club or something ask her what's she's into. If you work with her talk about work and find out how her day went. Find out where she's from, what movies she's into, places she's been to, that sort of thing.. topics always seem hard to think of on first dates and even for a while seem hard to come up with.. trust me. If she's as nervous as you are she's going to have a hard time thinking of things too, don't think that you have to be the one talking the whole time either, conversation can work both ways. Best of luck!

Answer 6

These are some things that I found on a site that may help you.

Things to talk about :
- School
- The Place you are on the date
- Likes and dislikes
A lot of people say that when you're on a first date try to ask questions about the person you're on a date with.The only problem is that your date is probably trying to do the same thing.Don't talk about yourself too much unless your date asks a question about you.

Answer 7

Ask her questions about family or interests, she'll be flattered that you want to hear about her. Bring up common hobbies if you have any.

I suggest maybe going to a movie or something like that on a first date so you just have time to get comfortable around her without being forced to talk, since it isn't your strongest point. If you're going to dinner, avoid places that you know will have a long wait. Good luck!

Answer 8

Take interest in her hobbies, family, ask about her job or career. Women love to talk about their lives and what goes on around them. That gives you the chance to throw in some of your interests if something she says relates to anything in your life. You can brush up on current events (the latest news headlines of the past couple weeks have been quite huge), find out if she likes sports.....or ask about if she has any interests in things you like.

Answer 9

Ask her questions about things she likes. When you find something you have in common, then incorporate your interests into the conversation. Ask her about her favorite music, movies, things she likes to do in her free time, etc. Be sure to make good eye contact with her and seem interested in what she is saying. Usually all it takes to break the ice is find something you have in common to start off with. Just relax and be yourself....she already likes you if she is willing to go out with you so have FUN!!!

Answer 10

Ask her questions, get her talking about herself and while she is doing this, listen and take notes. Find out if she has always lived in this town. What kind of job or schooling she is doing. What her hobbies are, what kind of food she likes, where she goes on vacation, what is her favorite color, flower, candy, perfume? It doesn't take long to get to know people. The more you learn about her the more comfortable you will feel by knowing who she is. Then just relax and listen to her.