so what do i do, im actually staying with my girlfriend out of pitty, but i still do love her though. The other girl loves me and really wants to date!!! but im scared to tell my girlfriend what I fell for the other girl cause she will bust out in tears!! si what do i do, please help me anybody, im really goingthrough a hard time right now, PLEASE!!!
2007-01-03 14:00:47 · 12 answers · asked by thedetto53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know your girlfriend is not really the one for you, you need to end it, regardless of this other girl. However, be careful that you aren't just chasing that feeling of infatuation that comes early in a relationship. All relationships mellow with time, and if you expect to stay in a constant state of infatuation, you will spend your life jumping from relationship to relationship.
2007-01-03 14:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by afling78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your girlfriend. You are not doing her any favors by staying with her. That is dishonest.
Tell her you are very sorry and the last thing that you want to do is hurt her, but you can't be her boyfriend anymore. Perhaps you can tell her that you have had feelings for someone else and you just don't feel right being with her.
Make sure she knows you did not cheat on her, because you respect her too much to do that.
It is harsh, but you have to do it.
2007-01-03 14:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the girlfriend go because it's obvious that you would rather be with the other girl especially when you say "that your staying with your gf out of pitty."
2007-01-03 14:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probaly are going througha tough time and I feel your pain. I really think you should tell your girlfriend in a compassionate way. I know it will break her heart but it happens to girls every day. She might be mad at you and stuff for a while. But, really think about this. If you break up with this other girl...Are you going to go back to your girlfriend now. She probaly wont take you back. You have some thinking to do. Are you willing to risk your love for a date?
2007-01-03 14:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to ya buddy, but you "don't" love her. You really can't argue and say that you do because IF you in fact DO love her, then you wouldn't even be considering being with this other girl. My advice is tell her, let her know that there is another girl, so that way she can get over you and the pain as soon as possible. Don't let her dwell on you if you don't plan on being with her.
2007-01-03 14:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bobby_Bomberman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your girlfriend, you would let her go. If you are only staying with her out of pity, it will make it worse for the both of you in the long run.
2007-01-03 14:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by RKO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your girlfriend she doesn't need your pitty. Do you both a favor and move on.
2007-01-03 14:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you love but are not in love with your girlfriend. Don' tell her what you feel for another girl ( that is just cruel) but don't you think both you and your girlfriend deserve better if your heart isn't in it? ( and it sounds like it isn't.)
2007-01-03 14:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the girl! and relax for a while.its fun to be single so enjoy it ! send your girlfreind a card saying you want to be best freinds or something!go with the other girl!!!!!!
2007-01-03 14:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by meaza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like is going to leave you for the one they love!! *Amanda*
Keep that in mind while making you decision!! :)
2007-01-03 14:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋