can sumone help me with sum relationship problems
here sum of the them
my bf lives with a 15yr old that he dating
my bf hasnt got me a xmas present and doent intend on getting me a bday card for my 18th
he never phone or texts me
he says he loves me then i dont hear fromhim for days
and loads more that i need help with coz i dont wanna dump him but i need help improving wat is wrong can sumone help and maybe help with other that arent posted
2007-01-03 13:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriend is living with a 15 year old that he's dating, how is he your boyfriend? Instead of asking for help for your relationship, you should probably ask for tips on meeting a new guy. Dump him unless you want to continue to be his doormat.
2007-01-03 13:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself what you are getting out of this relationship. It doesn't sound like he is really your boyfriend if he's living with another girl, doesn't call or text you and isn't getting you anything for Christmas or your Birthday. Why would you even want him for a boyfriend? A boyfriend should care about your feelings and want to do things to make you happy. Don't waste your time with this guy. Wait until you meet someone who treats you with respect.....that's what you deserve and should expect.
2007-01-03 22:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite obvious that he is straying away from you. It is time you think about it hard and make it clear to him. It's either you or her. You definitely deserve better and you shouldn't have to just stay put and take this treatment from him.
I know it isn't easy to put your foot down and expect fair treatment. But that's the only option you might have. Please feel free to email/IM me if you'd like to discuss more.
2007-01-03 22:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lives with a 15 year old that he is dating then she is his girlfriend not you. Actions always speak louder than words. It seems as if he is just using you. Honey, RUN as fast as you can from him and act like you never met him. He is telling you how he feels about you by living with someone else, not calling you and not remembering you at Christmas but you are not listening. My advice, dump him.
2007-01-03 22:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by healergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like the kind of guy you need to be with. If you can't trust him, how can you continue with a relationship? Relationships should be built on trust.
2007-01-03 21:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by music lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes just not into you! HINTS the 15 year old girlfriend that he is living with!!!! it is over move on!
2007-01-03 22:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you need to tell him how you're feeling. If you can't talk to him about something like this, he's not a good match for you.
Once you talk to him, you can decide whether you think things are going to get better of whether it's not worth it.
2007-01-03 21:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!!
hes not interested in you
2007-01-03 22:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's living with a 15 yr old that he's dating??
isn't he dating you?!
...........dump him
2007-01-03 21:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit!
2007-01-03 21:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋