my friend she has no butt and no boob ...i am curvy with butt and some boobs why does she brag about her body so much...she thinks it is way better to be her weight then being what i weigh. My mom used to be a small stick when she was like 25 being like 5'4" feet and 95 pounds(only because she was poor back then) and i am always pressured to become skinnier. My dad was a stick to!
I hate being pressured to lose weight i was quite happy with my weight before my friend and my mom called me fat. and my dad did too! my dad said it directly to me im fat....my mom said it indirectly saying im overweight but not fat my friend just keeeps bragging about her weight in front of me looking at me and then looking at hers i hate it i hate it i really dont think im that fat!
am i fat?
am i overweight?
is my friend underweight?
was my mom underweight?
2007-01-03 13:53:31 · 14 answers · asked by asianrbetta 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
First of all you are NOT fat! you are at a very health weight for you size. Your friend on the other hand does not sound like she is very healthy or have a very high self-esteem for herself. She is prob looking at you and is like 'wow she so pretty' and she may no that weight is a sensitive topic to you and so she may be trying to put it in you face to make herself feel better about herself. As for you mom and dad I think it is unacceptable for them to call you fat or over weight. If you were 5'2'' and 165 then ok, then they can say something....but your not! Look at yourself and ask yourself an I happy with my body? Because that's what counts not what anyone else thinks... and then theres is always the fact that we want to impress the guys...but remember that there are guys out there that like skinny girls, average girls, and yes fat girls. losing weight is not necessarily going to make you more attractive...just you may apply to different guys tastes.
2007-01-03 14:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Miriam M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My answer is that you are NOT fat. I'm 5'5'' and I'm 138 pounds! You're friend is underweight and so is your mom. They should probably see a doctor as well. Being a stick is not all that great anyways; I have a huge butt and I have days where I think it seriously sucks when I see all of those models with barely anything in their jeans and nothing in their bra. I cannot believe your mom calls you fat. That's like, not... I can't explain how that is such a big thing in families. You're only fat when you don't eat healthy foods and don't exercise. You could weigh 10 pounds and be six feet for all I care! (Which is probably impossible) But if you don't exercise or actually have a healthy lifestyle I would call them overweight. LOL, I admit I probably don't have that healthy of a lifestyle, but I'm trying! Just have a talk with your mom and explain to her that this is peer pressure and it's just not working for you. I'm pretty sure you'll feel much better. You might even want to see a doctor about it if your mom really WANTS you to lose some pounds.
-- Lisa
2007-01-03 14:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be a teen! 105 is a healthy weight for someone your height. You don't need to lose any weight. Try different styles of clothing. If your hips are big, get clothes that don't accentuate your hips. If you have a big chest, get clothes that take the focus off your chest. Also look at your hairstyle. Sometimes a change in hairstyle can help a person's perception about how they look.
2016-05-23 01:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not fat at all. Your weight is actually perfect for your height. (Just a nice factoid--I think Carly Patterson, gold medalist gymnast, is that height and weight and she's an elite athlete!) On the other hand your friend is underweight and I think she may just be a bit jealous of your body because believe me, having boobs and a butt is much better than being a stick because you end up filling into your clothes (especially dresses) much more nicely. So you shouldn't worry about your weight at all I'm sure you look fine and just ignore all of these pressures.
2007-01-03 14:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you kidding. People at 5'0 are usually 120lbs or so. Your 105. WTF? your skinny. Your a regular small person. Nothing abnormal. Your friend probably brags because shes insecure about herself. If you don't think your fat then good for you! Really. And yeah, at 5'2 and 95lbs, that's pretty skinny. sounds to me like someone has a some what eating disorder(not accusing of anorexia or bulimia,just has a bad relationship with her weight and body) . Seeing as she is comparing herself to you, that makes her happy. Tell her next time straight forward to just stop it. She doesn't really sound like a friend if you ask me.
And parents shouldn't be calling there kids fat. Especially since your not. Talk to a trusted adult, like a school therapist about it and she can help and don't feel uncomfortable about it at all.
Your not fat and that's that. ha ha that rhymed. so get it out of your head if anyone try's to put that thought there =]
2007-01-03 14:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your friend bragging about her weight sounds like she might not be comfortable with herself. She may have some under lieing self esteem issues. Don't let her pull you down. Ok last time I checked your weight was fine for your height. Check the BMI for your weight and height if your not sure. Your friend sounds like she is under weight for her height. Being skinny is the new thing for some reason. Don't listen to what everyone else is telling you. Being healthy is all you need to be concerned about. If your mom, dad and friend are calling you fat you have two choices. You can ignore them or come back at them with mean things to say. Such as, "At least I'm not dying of starvation on purpose like you".
2007-01-03 14:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not over weight, they are wrong, 105 pounds is fine. 90 pounds is too skinny, she needs to add on weight, and you don't need to drop any. You are perfect as the way you are. Feel good about yourself! Plus men love girls with a butt and boobs, believe me. It's alright, your perfect.
2007-01-03 14:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Midget 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are not overweight!!!! oh my gosh! that girl is way too skinny. She must be a really cold person in the winter time. i mean, come on now... 95 pounds? i know 4th graders who ae that weight. stay your size. don't be scared if you gain some weight... you'll still look good = )
yes, your mom was a stick.
your friend is underweight
2007-01-03 13:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are NOT fat or overweight. You are perfectly healthy at that weight! Don't let anyone tell you differently!!
As for your friend, 90 lbs??? That is TOO skinny, and it doesn't sound healthy. Does she have disordered eating habits? Keep an eye on her!
2007-01-03 13:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by kittenpie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your friend is the one who is 10lb underweight and you are a perfect weight. You should just be happy as you are, just tell your friend to shut it!
As for your parents, there is something very wrong if they are telling you that you're fat. Your mum was very underweight for 5ft4 and they should both know better. I promise your weight is absolutely fine.
HTH : )
2007-01-04 01:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋