im 16 does it matter ?
2007-01-03 13:20:23 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Hunny,
You Shouldn't Tie Your Self Down At The Age Of 16, You Need To Live The First 21 Year's Of Your Life Without Marrying Someone, Are You'll End Up Wishing You Had.
Worry More About School And Your Grades Right Now.
Let The Whole Boy Thing Wait A Few Year's.
2007-01-03 23:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married and it's dumb, I am 25 and got two kids and alone, while he's out living it up. It's a paper and a name change. No matter how old you are, being married at the same as it was long ago. Women are different and so are men, Be single and live you life not tied down. Be like a bird, free as the wind and be what you want. *smile and Good Luck*****
2007-01-03 13:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does matter. You need to know if you can handle the situation. And are your feelings for him love, or just lust? Is he into you for just a good time, or will he be willing to support you for the rest of your days? These are questions you need to ask yourself before you say yes. And if you do marry, will he be able to support you financially as well? If all these questions are yes, then go ahead. But you should give some serious thought to this- marrying should be no small matter.
2007-01-03 13:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. At 16 you are far to young to consider marrying anyone. I strongly recommend finishing college and securing a career first. Make sure you know who you are before you tie yourself to someone else.
Even when you are older you don't want to just marry the first guy that asks you. It is okay to think about it, and okay to say no if you don't think you will be compatible.
2007-01-03 13:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by hawke0008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it's a trap.Hey you have so much more in life to see.Tell him you guys can stay ingaged give it a rest till your about 18.Try it and if you still want to marry him fine but live your teen age life single for a while.
2007-01-03 13:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love him, have him give the ring as a pre-engagement ring as a promise to stay true. Then when you are 18 or older you can marry him.
2007-01-03 13:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it matters , you got to much ahead of you . if you guys are ment to be married youll still be together in like 5 years anyway, and then you can talk about that stuff no. need to rush
2007-01-03 13:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have to wait just a little.You can't get married in 16, that can do a lot of harm to you and your future.
but if you are TOTALLY sure in your feelings, why not?
2007-01-03 13:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents. Otherwise you can't get married til your 17 and by then you might meet somebody better.
2007-01-03 13:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't say yes at 16.
2007-01-03 13:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋