He said it's just too hard. We're Long Distance.that's just part of the reason.After all, we've been doing LD for a year now. he just says it's too hard to balance everything in his life. Being the only child,he has very controlling parents;He has duties in his fraternity;he wants to have fun in it since it's his last year in college(but not to date someone else, he's extremely shy, having not even a single female friend and we're each other's first love);on top of this,he'll be on academic probation this one last semester in college. So i sorta understand when he says he doesnt want a relationship right now.he does need to sort out his life. it just hurts when i thought i could be part of this process but he doesnt want me in it. i just wonder will he ever come back to me, when things start to get better. i'm a bit disappointed that he couldnt be a bit stronger but i do love him. i wonder if guys like him ever come back. thanks!
2007-01-03 13:19:45 · 6 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything is possible. Perhaps try calling or e-mailing him and let him know that you'd like to remain his friend and confidant while he is going through all this drama. We all need someone that has an ear to listen to us when we get really messed up and if he is as shy as you stated then you may be his only outlet to spill the beans to. At least this way he will know you are there for him. Certainly your feeling would be a bit hurt but you must emphasize with all he's going through as well. After you have both completed your studies you can sit down and have an open and honest conversation about your future and whether or not it is worth while to try and repair the relationship you had. Good luck and try being his friend.
2007-01-03 13:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got the exact same thing. My ex did everything he's doing, he pushed me away, but he didn't have anything important to do, he just said, oh this is too hard, haha, well, all those guys out there that are like that, arn't worth your or my time. I was ruined at first, but then I realized that there are other guys out there that won't let me go. So I'd move on, their not mature enough. I did and I'm just fine now. Well good luck.
2007-01-03 13:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may come back but don't hold your breath. Unless he's anal about his honesty, you probably don't have the complete unadulterated truth about the matter. But whether it's the truth, all the truth, partly the truth or whatever doesn't matter. The thing is you need to do your grieving and hurting and being disappointed because of the rejection. You have a right to be very disappointed and hurt.
2007-01-03 13:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wondering and move on life is to short to be spending time and energy on sombody who dosen't want you.You are a special person too and beleive me there is a whole lot of other fish in the sea.And I don't mean water.(smile)it is going to get better belive me.Just live your life with a smile on your face and a song in your heart and watch and see what happens.
2007-01-03 13:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely think of approximately it this way. if he truly wanted to be with you, he might make you an element of this technique. he wouldnt desire to lose you on suitable of all his issues. he would or will possibly not desire you back sooner or later, yet you have not any administration over that. i dont comprehend if he will, nor do you, and he in all probability doesnt even comprehend the two. so for now you merely could try to pass on.
2016-10-19 10:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with gblue52 completely!
2007-01-03 13:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by luv2dance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋