theres this guy i have had the hots for about five yrs. but i have not seem him in about two yrs. im fifteen and i really like this guy who is seventeen. and all the times we have been near eachother ive seen him look at me(if this makes a dif) hes honost sincere sensitive funny cute and all the good things i wanted in a guy
i just wish the next time i saw him i could strike up a conversation if it was meant to be.
this is for all u love experts I NEED HELP!!!
im super shy (around guys) and he is super shy (around girls)
2007-01-03 13:16:43 · 7 answers · asked by lovie dovie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sport, there's NO foolproof way to tell what his intentions are, unless you ask him. And there's no structured system for talking to someone you like. Results are going to vary with every single person you encounter.
The key is to be yourself. I know that sounds cheesy and obvious, but it really is true. You don't need to be up-to-date on Michael Richards at the Laugh Factory or James Brown's passing away to strike up a conversation. All you need is a solid foundation on a subject you take interest in.
A conversation could start out as easy as: "Hey, how was your day? What was your favorite part about it?" If it's not a person you're very good friends with, you still don't have anything to worry about. Just say something like: "Listen, I know we don't know each other very well, but I just noticed you across the room and wanted to say hi. I'm [your name here]."
It's like a football game: You never know whether you're gonna win or not. But you DO know that you'll lose if you never try to win in the first place.
Don't concentrate so much on BEING interesting.... Concentrate on being INTERESTED in him. You'll have a hard time carrying out a relationship with someone you can't listen to.
2007-01-03 13:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm definitely not an expert but there is nothing wrong with being shy around guys and if he is shy around girls then he probably feels the same way you do. maybe if you try to start a conversation he will be more comfortable talking to you because it will seem like you are calm and relaxed about it but if you act nervous and shy it might make it worse for him.
2007-01-03 21:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by the idiot down the road 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl at 15 you should be totally focused on your schooling instead of guys. But if you must talk to this guy, just ask him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime. Bowling, movie, etc.
2007-01-03 21:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys get realy frozen when u try to talk to em and they dont know what to say and say some thing realy stopid so try
not to be like hi whats up then hes not gonna know what to say
thne it gets very silent and ocward...
2007-01-03 21:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi guys usually have to start the conversation so its nice when chicks do it . just ask him about whatever he happens do be doing at that second
2007-01-03 21:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't loose by asking him out he'd be flattered.
2007-01-03 21:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok to talk to him all you have to do is open your mouth use your vocal chords and speak!!!!!!
2007-01-03 21:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋