how and when in this relationship do i bring up the fact that cann't have children? I mean we are in the beging stages of a relationship would it be fair for to just lead him to beleive that everthing is o.k. with me. When maybe he could be would with another women that can bare children?
2007-01-03 13:12:51 · 6 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it sounds like your relationship is becoming serious because he is talking marriage. You have to be honest with him. Expect the best not the worst. If he really loves you he won't be able to dump you to find a woman who can bear children that easily. Be optamistic there are lots of alternative ways of having children these days. Best wishes!
2007-01-03 13:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by little lamb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now. If he is gonna leave you because you're sterile, you should let him do it now. There's no reason to be worried. If you have a man that really loves you, it won't matter a bit. you can have a happy life and if he wants children, you could try adoption. there's tons of children who would love to have a home.
2007-01-03 21:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl let me tell you that as much as girls hate to be lied to so do guys. when a girl lies to us we get uber pist so its not good for bussiness. i think you will hurt him a lot since his deam is get married and have kids. so if he keeps on getting atached to you but you are going to be unable to provide what he dreams for and you lie to him this is going to tear both you and him appart in the future and there might be a rough split and it will hurt less if you guys drop it now. HOWEVER you can try letting him know that you cannot bare children and if he loves you enough that he would adopt a child with you if he truly wants to have kids and marry you. and i mean there is thousands of babies out there who are in need of a home and lots of love.
2007-01-03 21:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats something you seriously need to tell him. Cause in his mind he might have visions of a family, and you tellin him out the blue might crush him. If you are just at the beginning stages then tell him now, so its out in the open and there are no suprises.
2007-01-03 21:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up the next time you guys are about to make love or do something that really deepens the relationship, just mention it lightly and see how he reacts. I don't think you should wait, he'll wonder why you didn't tell him earlier.
2007-01-03 21:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick it out and if he loves you he won't care about it...he won't mind adopting kids. If he does then don't feel bad, there's someone out there who will love you no matter what.
2007-01-03 21:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Surrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋