Ok so i have been on 3 dates with this girl, i really like her and i think she likes me, the only problem i have is most of the time i have to txt/call her, she has only txted/called me first like 3 times. After our last date however she has been kind of distant, ill txt her and she waits a long time (day or 2) to reply, when she does it's a flirty reply, but it's still kind of distant, so i made the HUGE mistake of adding her to my myspace, when she finnaly accepts she deletes her account, i mean actualy deletes it. I know i've screwed things up, i can't txt her, should i wait serveral days and call her and see whats up or have hopeful thinking that she is just busy? If she wasn't into me would she reply with non flirty texts? Ughhhh im sick of this ****.
2007-01-03 13:05:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for re assuring what i already kinda knew, it's just hard to do (give up) on someone you really like.
I'll give her two days to call, if nothing, ill call her and just end it. Ugh, this sucks.
2007-01-03 13:17:56 · update #1
If she wont reply and its takin her that long I suggest u get over her, I think she might be tryna give u some hints. SO, if you STOP callin or txtn her and she notices, if she likes u she will call or txt YOU and if she was not interested in u, she wont. btw bout the flirty txts maybe she's just teasin'?
2007-01-03 13:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sounds like things were slowly going downhill, but i'm confused on why adding her to your myspace was such a big deal, I mean, she joined your page and then up and cancelled her account? Tells me she learned alot about you by being your *friend* on there and she chose to run away. Sounds to me like you need to let this one go because if she was kinda distant from the beginning and then learns more about you and leaves completely, then she is not interested and you don't need to beat yourself up over it. Look it at this way, you could have never added her and took alot longer to learn about each other and ended up splitting up anyways, so this way it just saved alot of time. Hope this wasn't cold sounding and sorry it didn't work out but life will go on and you will find another one so think positive!
2007-01-03 13:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you continuously overlook approximately a woman while she is obviously flirting then yeah she is going to offer up attempting. So if she's stopped attempting she probable has assumed which you do unlike her. in case you nevertheless do you gotta guy up. i understand what it is want to be shy...yet now and lower back you gotta merely recover from that worry. i think of you're able to easily confer together with her or deliver her a card. BE brave! think of of it this style...if she walks far flung from you she did no longer do something which you haven't any longer already completed to her. and you would be no worse off than you already are. So merely guy UP and DO IT! I surely have faith in you...you're able to do it:)
2016-10-06 09:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing you a bit, or she's just not as interested. I'd just chill, move on a bit. If she's interested, have her come to you. You've been pursuing her, turn it around and let her start pursuing you to guage her interest. If she does contact you, then there's some interest there, if not, oh well, time to move on.
The last thing you should do is obsess over this, it's not worth it.
2007-01-03 13:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since she is being distant that she is just stringing you along , and its not you who is doing anything wrong. In my opinion i think she deleted her acct cause she knew you would feel you somewhat did something wrong. I think you need to move onto someone who is willing to be upfront with you. You need to move on and stop wasting valuable time on this girl and find someone who is not into stupid games and want to be in a relationsihp
2007-01-03 13:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo, I don't know what happend I mean her not starting to text or call you first I can understand because I'm not good with calling guys either I usually wait for them to call me but the my-space thing is deffinatly a sign, but I think if you did anything really wrong you would know it. It sounds to me like it's her issue
2007-01-03 13:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good. She's either playing the old game of "hard to get" or just not interested. If she's playing a game would you still be interested in her? And if she's not interested all you can do is move on. So why not try moving on.
2007-01-03 13:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this girl just sounds like an immature little girl who you really should not be messing around with. Unless you just want a one night stand. This is the type of girl that will drive you crazy if she does hook up with you. Bottom line, run as far away as possible.
2007-01-03 13:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
call her in 2 days and see if she wants to go to a bar with you (if your not old enough then take her to a movie). If she does then play it smooth and try to kiss her halfway into the date. If she goes with it then your in. If she doesen't then say your sorry and take her home.
2007-01-03 13:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by luker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling her entirely. let her do the calling. if she calls that is good, i guess. if she doesn't well that is good, too. cause then you can concentrate on your next victim. you just don't understand when they aren't interested. she is probably calling the guy she really wants to get hooked up with. be real. if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you are with. looks don't matter, it is all good. carry on bro.
2007-01-03 13:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋