It seems that way. I'm a multiracial guy, who is only 5' 4". Good looking, well-educated, with good values and a solid education. Yet the only women who approach me do so for my money. And all the women I've loved who rejected me did it either because I didn't belong to their same "race" or because I was too short.
Sometimes I think being both things at the same time, multiracial and short, is a curse.
2007-01-03 13:04:11 · 14 answers · asked by tlakkamond 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a shame that the environment that your in, which is probably where you work and grow in your career is a superficial place. I'm sure if you where in different surroundings that would not be the case. You may find yourself attracted to the kind of women where that attitude is to be expected. Try going out with a different kind of woman all together...See how that works out for you. You sound like a good guy.... I wish you the best.
2007-01-03 13:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by keewesti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't think that the problem is you, the girls you have talked to seem like air heads and gold diggers. You may need to try a different selection of women, like those who are not tall and not stuck on material things. Race has nothing to do with it unless you let it get in the way this is the 21st century.
2007-01-03 13:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by keshia luv so 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem here, except I've haven't had ANY long attraction than 1 minute for the types that I'm interested in out of a possible 10 years since high school.
2007-01-03 13:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cenaposermobile3254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a mix race my self and im not so tall either. Its depends on individual preference for the race. Lots of people find me exotic for this. As for the height, most women do choose to be with someone who is taller. We just like it that way, men who is taller than us looks more macho and bigger & its kind of giving us the protection feeling.
2007-01-03 13:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, those things aren't the "most important" characteristics but you have ot realize that for most people attraction DOES play a part.
Stop being insecure about yourself and work in your confidence. When you like you and are comfortable with who you are, others will feel that way toward you too...people gravitate toward those that exude confidence and a positive personality, no matter what they look like...
2007-01-03 13:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy has to talk to a girl before they know they are attracted. Height is attractive but plenty of good looking guys arent very tall - for me as long as the guy is taller than me and better built hes fine.
2016-03-29 06:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally there is so much more that i look for in a man than his height and race - money doesnt mean **** to me and the guy has to be attractive - at least to me- and has to have a great personality - anything else is just a bonus
2007-01-03 13:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; anyone who cares only about the physical isn't worth your time. A real woman will love you for your heart and soul.
2007-01-03 13:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, maybe your not looking hard enough? Obviously if they olnly want ur money they are superficial. Dont hang out with the richies, it may solve your problem
2007-01-03 13:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly I like taller guys. I don't see how race makes a difference though.
2007-01-03 13:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Krupkake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋