Any thoughts wanted...im just curious...
2007-01-03 12:56:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok how bout a 20yr old girl with a 39yr old male to much? its sounds better as 40 and 59 so does it matter...im just doing a kind of survey
2007-01-03 13:11:19 · update #1
Anything above 10 years is a pretty big difference, but depends on maturity level and where you are at in your life.
2007-01-03 13:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as Des put it there isn't one for love (unless of course you are underage and your love interest isn't...) but I dated a guy for 2 years that was 22 years older than me. We just could not make it work (I was 20 and he was 42). Too big of an age gap can be difficult to overcome because your interests are completely different than someone that is significantly older or younger than you. By significant, I'm talking 20 or more years difference. But that's just my take on it from previous experience.
2007-01-03 21:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shylen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10-15 years
2007-01-03 20:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by milly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends upon one's age. There's nothing wrong with a 35-year-old being with a 50-year-old, or a 25-year-old with a 35-year-old. There is a huge problem with a 14-year-old being with anyone older than 17 (statutory rape charges could be pressed).
As for seniors, nothing wrong with a 60-year old being with an 85+ year old.
2007-01-03 21:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 and 30 is a huge age gap..
while 30 and 47 isn't as huge.. its not always about
the years its about the maturity. But they say relationships are
best with 4-6 years between you.. either way.
2007-01-03 20:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that if you're under 21 and the person you want to be with is signficantly older (by 10 years or so), it's a problem. Otherwise you're an adult and the gap won't matter.
2007-01-03 20:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 10 years is the limit... not to much more than that, but it really does depend on the maturaty level of the two people. Girls are usually more mature than guys which is why the guy is usually older in a marriage. So it really... it depends on the people.
2007-01-03 21:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old each of you are. Generally, if you're still a teen, you should avoid relationships with older men/women and stick with your age group at all costs. If you're in your 20's, I would say up to 15 years or so.
2007-01-03 20:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the age for instance a 15 year old girl with a 20 year old guy is disgusting but a 25 year old guy with a 20 year old chick is fine
2007-01-03 21:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldnt matter.... I do think its wrong for someone who is like 13 to be with a 60 year old...Thats a little outrageous but 10-15 years isnt to bad...
2007-01-03 21:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋