I'm 20 and I love in Toronto. I really think I need to start my own life, I go to university and I'd definitely have financial difficulties if I move out. Is it really worth it? My dad gets kinda angry evey time I bring this issue up but I think this is it for me and I need to get out. I love my family and everything but at the same time I need my own space. At home, I'm sharing a room with my sister and it gets really annoying. I don't want roommates if I move out, Is it even possible to get a tiny place just for me?
2007-01-03 12:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by heylomaylo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a pretty good job on campus. I'll be able to take more shifts and I take out a student loan every year for my tuition. Moving out could mean having lots of debt after I graduate.
2007-01-03 13:00:55 · update #1
I'm a whole lot older than you but I moved out at your age while in college--I got a tiny, tiny (oh my God tiny) apartment--by myself, didn't want roommates, just my own little space. I struggled especially financially, but I worked, went to school, and really feel I grew up by doing it! I had one room, kitchenette, and bath. It was hard but I will tell you it was the best thing I ever did. My parents (Mom) were angry at first but it was the best move I ever made. When my son at age 20 decided to move out we gave him our blessing, we knew it would be hard for him, but that's part of growing up and becoming your own person! Go for it, I'm sure if you go thru the University they can help you find affordable housing. Good Luck to you!!!
2007-01-03 14:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by fallingstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a young women?
I can understand you parents fears, but can also understand why you feel you need your space. Look up places you want to move too. See how much they are.
Most universities have a bulletin board, look on there for a job. It will be very hard. But if this is what you want then I personally would go for it.
There is nothing like moving out, finding your own way. It is work though. One can not expect to have money always in the pocket for going out with friends and having a good time, there will be bills, and they come every month.
Good luck with your choices...
2007-01-03 13:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there will be many problems to arise once you move out on your own. Did you think about the expenses like rent, light gas and water, cable, grocery, the cost of furniture and the list goes on. Freedom is good, but the price of it will hurt your pockets unless you have a good job. But if you have your mind made up, go for whatever makes you happy. I moved out and live in the apartments on campus its great since it is free. If i had to pay for it, I would be at home with my parents, trust family is not that bad.
2007-01-03 12:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by keshia luv so 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question to you is, do you have a job? If you don't, then honestly, you need to get one first and make sure you can even afford a place. Look in the paper and get pricing. But I can assure you that unless you know for a fact that you can afford paying for a place and all that goes with it, you may be better off starting out with a roommate, try a friend or someone you know you can trust.
2007-01-03 12:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by !?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you have a job? Do you get refunds from your student loans? My friend in graduate school lives in a studio apartment and pays her rent with leftover money from her loans and the money she earns from her job. Look in the paper and price studio apartments (get one that includes utilities so that you only have one bill per month). Then make a list of your projected bills (rent, groceries (about $50 every 2 weeks), car payment, gas for car, spending money). If your income can handle it, then move out on your own. If not, then save up your money while you're living with your parents until you can better afford to move.
2007-01-03 12:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bravo for you for wanting to stand up and grow up..however 20 is a bit young if you have no job, no savings, and are going to school..sure, you can get a small place for yourself..but room mates can help share the costs..try to stick it out at home for as long as you can..you may be sorry if you do something without really thinking it through. But good luck to you..
2007-01-03 12:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES bad idea. move out AFTER college when you have a full time job. trust me..having money issues during college is NO fun. it'll be worth it later when you can really be independent and support yourself fully. you'll be less stressed out. take my advice and take advantage of a free roof over your head as long as you can. I kno it's annoying but being in debt is more annoying.
2007-01-03 12:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by zooey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay a home. Grin & bear it for the last few years of college. Dont get all that debt. Try moving into the basement if you can. It'll be over soon!
2007-01-03 13:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could say locate yet another roommate, yet that doesn't seem obtainable. in case you're truthfully in love with the home i could say to allow her back in till the hire it up...and then have yet another roommate that ought to flow in fairly of her. in case you could handle leaving the home i could say deff go away and initiate over. you do no longer desire somebody like that during your life, despite if it somewhat is only living together with her. it can not be healthful emotionally.
2016-11-26 01:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋