2007-01-03 12:37:19 · 37 answers · asked by ginger p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-03 12:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by rowdy rick 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you feel uncomfortable with it, don't do it. Sex (and related things) are one area where both people need to be almost on the exact same wavelength. If anything is off balance with either of your interests, it will be a problem and most likely continue later. Everyone needs to be with someone who respects them, too. If he doesn't respect when you are uncomfortable, he isn't for you. The other thing is to always make sure you're communicating with him. Tell him exactly how you feel. You may want to and just not like the pressure. You may only want to once in a while. You may never want to. Whatever it is, make sure you tell him how you feel. Honesty is so crucial in relationships, especially early on. This is when habits are formed - emotionally, sexually, etc. And this is a particularly important issue because if you have bad sexual experiences now, it may cause flashbacks or bad feelings if you have sexual experiences with someone else. Just talk to him and trust your instincts. You deserve someone who feels right to be with.
2007-01-03 12:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by ZenBrain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl tell him you don't want to - and if he leaves you then at least you didn't waste all your time on him!! I never did that until I got married, and my husband says he respects me more because I was honest with him when I told him that I didn't feel comfortable doing it. And he told me that if I would have went down on him the first time we had sex he would have thought I was a sl*t anyway! lol!!
Any guy who's bugging you to go down on him really needs to get over himself..
2007-01-03 12:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it but only if he does it for you. if he won't then just tell him why you won't do it for him. and also ask him if it would be alright since he wants you to go down on him all the time if whenever you want him to go down that he would do it?? such as in the middle of the night if he wakes you up just for you to give him a bj and afterwards he's done then wait the next night and wake him up in the middle of the night and tell him to start licking and after you get yours you roll over and go to sleep, see what he says to that... and that'll give you your answer.
2007-01-03 12:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by brenkenlyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. It´s part of having fun and enjoying sex. Sex without french kiss is not a full act. Do it, and you are going to enjoy it as much as he does. I lovefrench kissing my girlfriend. She is very tasty. I think will be the same for you and your boyfriend. Good luck and mature baby.
2007-01-03 12:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by icecool_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down on him or just 69 then everyone is happy. If he stinks down there,tell thats why u dont want too.
2007-01-03 12:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those type of guys are so lazy and will never learn to please a woman. If you have not been going out for a while I would dump him before it got too serious. In the meantime just say no unless you feel like it.
2007-01-03 12:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by anonbealove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You clearly dont want to and you dont have to. Your not a bad person for it. Tell him. How he reacts will let you know if he's the boyfriend for you.
2007-01-03 12:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it than don't. Guys like sex. Oral. Anything with a hole. You can choose not to do it - but remember - he might not go down on you. I don't know about you, but I couldn't give that up!!!
2007-01-03 12:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jodi813 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him you should do it. Ask yourself if its worth it or not. Be honest with him and tell him how you feel about doing that. Honesty can open the door to a great relationship.
2007-01-03 12:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by sweedeeeeeee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope your old enough for this kind of stuff. Guys love it and they love to watch you do it too. I say if hes the one then make him go crazy otherwise ummm NO!
2007-01-03 12:41:39 · answer #11 · answered by hot lips 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋