im 14 now and ive liked this one guy and its been 3 years now that i have liked him were always friends then we would fight and he wouldnt talk to me for no reason and when hes not mad at me hes really sweet and a lot of times hed ask me to help him w/ his homework when hes smarter than me and sometimes i feel like hes using me and also he jokes around with me alot but he always calles me anorexic and im not and he knows how much i hate it I cant tell if he likes me or not but i know i really do! I know im too young to be in love but i really think i am and just whenever were in a fight i always end up crying. The nice thing tho is that when something happens he doesnt mention it to anyone. A lot of times when we are friends hed put his arm around me and always ask me for help for stuff but i think he does that to everyone and now we are in a fight because i told him i was sick of him always using me for his homework did i blow it what do i do and does he like me?
2007-01-03 12:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sweetie please dont be offended by my comments, but you are going to be a great woman someday, willing to help a boyfriend with things, as for this one, well chalk it up to experience, if he is your first love, it may seem like it hurts a great deal, but think into the future, are you going to do this life forever, being used because that is what you are feeling, its okay to help a friend but if he is making you cry,,,,what your getting is not worth it, you know so much to do and see in the world, sweetie there will be plenty of men for you to adore and learn from, at this age please do not put all your eggs in one basket,,i am happy you are kind and loving, fighting is so not fun,,,,do take care of your self, go out with your friends asmuch as possible,,have fun
2007-01-03 12:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After three years, I think you are allowed to blow off steam. Yes you are too young to worry about love. But it seems there is a friendship love there. That is truly the best kind. Tell him how you value his friendship and hope that in the future he may think of you as more than a friend. I know it seems like a lot. But its a safe way of sharing your feelings to a close friend without pressuring him into an ackward position.
2007-01-03 12:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by an_awsome_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't know if he likes you or if he just considers you a friend. One thing is for sure though if you really feel that strongly for him I think you should tell him. It's better having him know then thinking about it constant time and wondering if he feels the same way. That's never any fun. Just go for it and let him know how you feel if he feels the same way then you can be together and if he doesn't then at least you will know and be able to move on with your life. Good luck.
2007-01-03 12:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. But you shouldn't rush into things. You're only 14. You should concentrate on yourself right now. If it's meant to be, it will be. Just let nature take it's course. Sorry I'm sounding so philosophical.
2007-01-03 12:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you like someone who treats you like this .. Sweetie you dont need to jerk who is using your for homework and then mistreats you after wards. Being with someone like that will only make you lower your self esteem.. You need focus on school and life but if you have a boyfriend let him be someone who is postive ..
2007-01-03 12:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that was alot.
If you fight alot, maybe he isn't right for you.
However, the touching is a real hint he likes you. This is a hard one, but I wouldn't go for it, becuase it could ruin your friendship.
Better safe the sorry!
2007-01-03 12:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have more of a crush than him
be friends
but do not help with homework anymore
do not let him use you
2007-01-03 12:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young let him go, I am sure you can do alot better anyways. Drama isn't worth your time.
2007-01-03 12:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Christine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love and games go on to life .move on hon
2007-01-03 12:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is, just dont mention the homework thing that u said....and everything will be fine
2007-01-03 12:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋