how bad were you punished? severe? did you have to take off your shirt for your beating or could you leave it on? how did they do it? any ritual? etc
2007-01-03 12:24:25 · 23 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well my father broke his hand on my knee when I went to put them up so he would not get my rib cage. This is because I did not want to go to church any longer. I never went back either.
Let see holding up by the throat in a corner was his biggest thing. This would free his punching hand. This is just a few things....
So I guess one would say severe. Is this treatment OK, of course it is not. Did anybody back then care, or intervene of course not. Those were the days when a child was at fault, period. When a child only wished that a spanking was going to happen.
Those were the times you did not talk back (which I did anyways), and one tippy toed around the house instead of making any kind of noise. Kids of today have it made!!
I have never nor will ever treat my children the way I was treated! Nor will I ever let anyone treat them this way...
I advise any child being treated this way to talk. Even when you new you could not go to school the next day because of the bruises, or move for the pain in your body. By the way when locked into your room one can take off the hinges of the doors. So do not let a locked door stop you from leaving. Silence is the way these kinds of people shut up those who they want to dominate and control. Some people would rather feel pain then to be controled....Physical pain has a way of going away, well some what... Also just because one was born into a family, this does not make a family. This does not make a parent, just sperm and ovary donaters....
2007-01-03 12:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never did get beat as a child, and I hope you didn't either, that's sad if you did.
My Dad would just talk to us and we would pretty much listen to him.
I was truly blessed with a wonderful Dad that loved us a lot. And I really feel bad for the kids that were raised being beat and abused.
Kids are so wonderful, I just love kids now that I'm a grown up. But I guess there are kids that needs spankings now & then, and thats OK as long as its not a beating.
We have never had a problem child in our family that needed sivere punishment, thank God.
I wouldn't know how to handle that !
God Bless and have a wonderful New Year!
2007-01-03 12:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At nine I farted while sitting at the kitchen table 3 weeks later I was released from the hospital. I could bleed with clothes on or off .at the age of 15 I could endure no more I met my drunk old man at the door with a base ball bat. I spent 3 years in juve. While my old SOB father never spent a day in jail for me. our court system sucks in Texas.
I am now 55 and have never beat any of my children and have a good family relations with them.
So the physiologist who say abusive behavior is a learned experience. abusive parents are that way because they were abused.BS they are that way because they want to be.
2007-01-03 12:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never got beat. I am 20 and I still get punished, but it is by my dog. Even when I look at her she bites me. But I love her! When I was younger I would have rather to had taken a beaten but instead I got those talks. Oh boy!
2007-01-04 10:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kreutzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got spanked on the bum with like a wooden spoon or something, but usually a belt. Sometimes I was sent to my room, or I had to go sit in the laundry room alone for 15 minutes with nothing to do.
2007-01-03 12:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spanking mostly when I was little. Getting grounded later.
Verbal abuse, never beaten, although mom came after me real bad one time when I was 13, I hit her back, once, she never touched me like that again.
The funniest punishment I ever got was for bad grades one year. Mom said I could be grounded for 6 weeks or go to church on Sundays for six weeks...(we were raised with no religious conditioning whatsoever) duh...tough one...I went to church for 2 weeks, then cut. She didn't know anyone from that church and never knew.
2007-01-03 12:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just to give some my dads belt on my back until l bleed,or his fist and would make me smell it first,or get nude and wait for him to come into the room and he would take his time this is only a few my frien and l still hurt now at 50.
2007-01-03 12:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by pirateron 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was punished by having a switch used on me and trust me I didn't do too many things wrong cause that hurts like H***
2007-01-03 12:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude! i had to pick the belt...& it better had been a good one! my dad had one of those zipper belts (hidden pocket) that i always picked first. then, he'd send me back for a different one. I turned out great!! my fav punishment was being grounded b'cuz i had so many things to do in my room, it wasn't like being punished at all!!
2007-01-03 12:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by J-Dizzle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you assume a punishment involved a beating? Many punishments do not.
2007-01-03 12:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by jewels 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋