I just got back from a trip from wisconsin i went by myself , not with my mom and borther how i usually do. when i came home its like i havent lived at all there like there is no life anymore where i usually live.Like now i dont love my dog as much, whats wrong with me, im not sad or anything, its just like i havent been this way ever! I'm not as energenic, and i felt like i learned a lot in wisconsin when i went on my trip, when my mom came to pick me i had like a grumpy feeling to her and i think she could tell.I have no idea why i am like this please help me!! im only 14 and i have no idea why im like this. Am i depressed or something, as im writing this right i feel like i wana cry/ vomit for some reason what does that mean? Please help me. I also feel like i should be closer to my other family in wisconsin because right when i came home from the airport i was looking for tickets again to go in april, Am i homesick of some kind i have no idea wats going on!
2007-01-03 12:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by rundumctrickaaay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wisconsin is awesome, it's normal to miss it when you go.
You'll feel better soon, just relax
2007-01-03 12:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by kherome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine, it will be fine, just relax. You've had an experience away from your immediate family for a while and are coming home with lots of 'new' stuff in your head that is giving you some new perspectives on your home. Be patient with all, avoid caffiene and sugar or anything else that jacks you up. Make a special effort to be nice to your mom and brother and especially your dog! You will readjust to home life and all will be well.
This happens to me sometimes when I come home from a wonderful vacation, it takes a week or so to get used to being home again and come down off of 'vacation high'.
You may also have picked up a mild bug travelling, and climate changes can affect your energy levels. And don't forget those raging hormones at 14...
It'll be fine, there's nothing wrong with you, really, I promise.
2007-01-03 20:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called being a teenager with hormones, actually. You'll probably notice that your moods and feelings are a lot like this (up and down) for the next 6 years or so. But I think the homesickness is probably making it all worse. Hope you start feeling a bit better soon!
2007-01-03 20:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby doll it is called growing up. you are getting older and are changing. your body changes, your way of thinking, you are getting your feet wet. I remember what it was like when I was 14. i was always in my room. no one understood me but me. Maybe you need to take some time and figure out what you want to do in your life. Take up a hobby. Read a book. talk to a person you trust with your innermost feelings and just be prepared to grow. No one said growing up is easy. just make sure you try not to be too moody and abrupt with the people that love you. And talk to your family get to know them as you are growing. Maybe it is time for a change. If it is so then God will make a way where your mom and everyone aroundf you will change.
2007-01-03 20:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by sistacbell 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your mom and try to tell her what you are feeling. I think maybe there is something else going on that you don't realize is connected. Counseling would be good for you right now.
2007-01-03 20:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋