my girlfriend dumped me a little bit more than 2 months ago. how do i get her back.?

Question

she was the girl of my dreams. i 've dreamed of her for years. and i finally got her. but now were through.

Answer 1

why do u want someone who doesn't want u? find someone who wants u too. it might take a while to find but she's out there

Answer 2

That's just it. Don't try to get her back. That would just annoy her and push her further away. I have had boyfriends in the past, that when I just wasn't in love, that reason wasn't good enough. Situations like that can be complicated. Your best bet is just to let her know that you're there for her (without worshiping the ground the she walks on). As a woman, I know that when I break it off with someone, I don't want to have to peel them off of me. I would rather them take it like a man and move on.

It's perfectly ok if you still want to be on good terms or even friends if it can work. Just give a little space, and a little time.
Not all hope is lost. I'm currently engaged to someone that I dated in middle school and thought I wouldn't never see again. He had dumped me (twice), it broke my heart. I just left it alone. Moved on. Stayed on good terms. And he came back 8 years laters and wouldn't take no for an answer. Happily Ever After.

Answer 3

Why did she dump you?
Maybe your expectations of her were too high since she was your dream girl. I had a dream guy once but he turned into a nightmare.
I hope you realize that maybe that door closed on you to open a new one with something much better behind it.

Answer 4

Maybe you should let her go for a little while. She might realize you were better than the man she is dating, (if she is dating someone) or that she misses you.
Begging her /bugging her, might make her frustrated and not want to come back.
If that does not work, maybe she's not meant for you, even if you did love her very much. There are a lot of other very nice girls.

Answer 5

Then either she doesn't want to be with you,
or she just need some space,
some guys after they get the girl of their dreams,
they tend to be REALLY needy,
or drive them crazy,
but she might just want to be with you anymore.

Answer 6

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.


And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got
to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth.....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ........

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents .

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude.......

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take

you to a new level in Him......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship.......

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed .......

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself

and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"

then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2007 !!!



LET IT GO!!!

Answer 7

while she dumped u this means she doesnot want to be with u again so get over her

Answer 8

mine dumped me in april because I wouldnt commit.

just move on.

Answer 9

well..............figure out.. "why" she dumped you.. Then do the opposite of that...

For example.. "My girlfriend dumped me b/c I lied"
So you do this.... "Dont lie".

or

"My g/f dumped me b/c Im a loud abnoxious A$$"
so you do this... "Hello.. I've got my g/f back b/c im NOT a loud abnoxious A$$.

Your welcome

Answer 10

call her back and tell her the way you feel about her