I have been with my bf for 6 months in that time my best friend has fought me to the death that this guy was just no good for me blah blah blah, well much to my surprise she pushed herself on him about 3weeks ago they infact did make out they both swear or at least he swears that ia were it ended she says she doesnt know what happen because she was "WASTED" but yet sure she didnt push herself onto him. We are adults in our mid twenties and this kind of crap ended in jr. high I thought I dont know if there is anyway for him and I to work this out and as far as my bestfriend yeah I am done. I am so so so confused he is my everything the love of my life and tey both knew this I dont know were to start or what to do.
2007-01-03 12:16:27 · 13 answers · asked by chrissylynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be done with the both of them.
It's a new year...start fresh for 2007. They are not worth the breth it takes to even talk to them. If you allow him to direspect you with your best friend you might as well sign a contract allowing him to Sh*t on you for the remainder of your realtionship!!!
2007-01-03 12:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it didn't end in Jr high still goes on today with some people, she is no friend of yours, talked alot about him not being the right man for u, but think she was trying to make u think he had a flaw, so she could move in for the kill. u can probably work it out with the boyfriend, depending if he is sorry and repetitive, but she has burned her bridges. much like the man who says the thing he is purchasing isn't worth much, than when he finally gets it at a reduced price, he brags about what a good buy he got. when we are wasted that's when our true feelings come out.
2007-01-03 12:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably know what you need to do deep down. It sucks when someone we hold so dear betrays us and tosses our feelings aside for their selfish moments of pleasure. But that's what they really are "selfish" and not thinking about us as we do for them. You really ought to take a real good, long look at who you thought was your everything, he could lead you to having nothing. And how could you ever trust him in the future; I mean he cheated with someone you know really well, it wasn't like someone you might not find out about! I wouldn't trust him. He was well aware of the price your heart would pay- not only cheating on you but also with your best friend. Run like your back is on fire!
2007-01-03 12:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reducing is sadly a very instantly ahead outlet for melancholy or stress. in case you help set her up at treatment or counseling it will be a extra effective thanks to attend to her issues. @draw close Yeah, great idea. "Take any sharp products out of her attain". i'm particular her mothers and fathers received't merchandise to you going into their abode and stealing all of their kitchen knives, craft knives, scissors, something even remotely sharp. And praying for someone is ineffective even if you're non secular, which the OP might want to not be. (ie. not very sensible). If by 'physician' you recommend therapist it truly is wonderful, yet a GP can't do a area.
2016-12-01 19:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by klosterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit them both down and have them both tell the story exactly how it happened. i think that in the end, if its really worth it with this guy, you should stick with him. about the best friend. try to work things out by telling her up frount that you really like the guy and what she did was wrong. i hope everything works out.
2007-01-03 12:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move away. Start a new life. Get a new boyfriend. Get a new best friend. You are too young for this drama.
2007-01-03 12:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not you bestfriend. Talk to her and set things straight, let her know what your feelings are and stay way from here. Honey, she will make you no good.
2007-01-03 12:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by azlyncita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adults? Haaaardly...both should be out of your life now...period...
2007-01-03 12:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, this sounds pretty juvenile. I'm not sure I'd want either of them anymore...
2007-01-03 12:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you should be done with him also was he drunk (wasted ) also? if not what was his excuse? he cheated on you also. dump them both and start over......
2007-01-03 12:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋