I'm generally a shy and quiet guy with women, especially attractive ones. So what do girls think about this.
2007-01-03 12:02:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its nota turn off or anything, it accually kinda flattering if a guy is shy around a girl (but dont do it purposly) The only thing some what annoying is the lack of communication, if your shy, you may never talk, and you cannot have a relationship if you dont talk. You can be shy at first, dont worry- its not a turn-off.... but once you spend some time with her youll warm up. So as long as you're yourself, and dont stay quiet 100 % of the time, Im sure youll hit it off with the ladies quite well =]
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2007-01-03 12:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Susanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I used to be shy and quiet. Depending on your age, it may be something to grow out of, but there will always be some level of uncertainty when it comes to meeting new people. I'm sure some girls like that type, but even if they don't particularly, all is not lost.
You have to position yourself as not only the obvious shy and quiet, but someone who's either nice or fun to be around. The easiest way to do this is to find out what they're interested in and ask them about those interests. People enjoy talking about what they like to do/watch/eat/listen to/whatever. This not only gives them the impression that you're a great conversationalist, but it enables you to do the minimum amount of talking, which, as I understand is the aim here.
Good luck!
2007-01-03 12:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by fl_omicron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually normal for guys to be shy around attractive girls but girls don't think much of shy boys. Most girls think that they are cute because the boy is shy to be around them. One day you'll snap out of that shyness and then see how the girls react.
2007-01-03 12:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the choice between a shy, quiet guy and the typical jock I go for the shy guy. Every time.In my experience they always prove to be deeper and more interesting. Harder to get to know maybe but worth the effort
2007-01-03 12:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't know that you're interested because you didn't say anything.
They think you are a stalker because why else would you be afraid to express what you were thinking, so what you were thinking must be really bad.
They think you are a human doormat and only abusive women that notice that you're acting out co-dependent behavior will take an interest so that they can take out their childhood abuse on you.
i.e. They think - like the guy jerks that treat you like crap - that you make a good victim.
2007-01-03 12:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like it! At first, it's cute and kinda mysterious. It makes me more interested in getting to know the guy, and makes me more outgoing and funny. But it gets old, say, a few months after we become a couple, and the guy is still quiet.
2007-01-03 12:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Yalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think its cute, I think a guy that is loud and vulgur is disguisting and stupid. If you really like a girl and you start talking to her more, then she will think that you trust her...which is good, women like trust. but in the long run I think most girls dont mind shy guys. I like it.
2007-01-03 12:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by abbybloom1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like shy guys. just get a girl that doen't care.maybe one that will talk for you
2007-01-03 12:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by may the force be with you 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they think that shy and quiet guys are mysterious. I think they are the ones that are less preverted and maybe smarter than other guys lol
2007-01-03 12:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by mzrockchick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some would find it quite sexy depends on the individual i like shy guys hu arent overly confident as 2 much confidence can b quite a turn of, no 1 likes sum1 hu loves theirself 2 much do they!
2007-01-03 12:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋