2007-01-03 11:47:26 · 43 answers · asked by Jo3-Jo3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who wants it ... him or you? I definitely wouldn't do something just because someone else wanted it. Not saying that this is the case, but that's usually the first step to giving control to the other person. I would also question whether or not I knew him well enough to move in together. Three months might be enough time for some people, but it may be too soon for others. My niece seems to make the same mistakes over and over again of moving in with people before she actually gets to know them. At least three-fourths of the time, she has found out - too late - some very unattractive things about these boys. I don't think that 3 months is enough time to really know someone. There are probably people that you've known for years that you're still discovering things about ... be careful ... God Bless!!!
2007-01-03 12:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jewels 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i can see most ppl. tell u NO......Well if you're comfortable with him thenYES!!!!!!!!!!!! Everybody seems to go back to that....I wasn't raised to do that BS......Me and my wife lived together a YR. before we were married. I think we dated 2 months before moving in.....BEST DAM N thing I ever done! We learned all those "what not to do's" before we ever got married......That was cool....We still have bumps, but not 2 many mtns. Most of those are covered in the first yr. Things like $$$ , do i really love him/her.....you know that stuff....Anyway I SAY GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!! Better to do it now even if it doesn't work than to get married and have to have a NASTY divorce!!!! So to all the Political correct ppl. who swear what JESUS would do and how that's not HOLY and stuff.....Get off her their back! That's nothing more than Judging....and isn't there a phrase....JUDGE NOT LEAST U BE JUDGED YOURSELF....HMMMMMMM!
2007-01-03 11:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, moving in is just going to cause problems in the relationship. Wait until it gets more serious or wait until you talk about marrige or kids. I wouldn't move in together after just 3 months together way too soon.
goodluck.
2007-01-03 11:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No, No, No!!
Moving in together is a BAD IDEA. All you have to do is read all these women who post question on Yahoo Questions and they all say "My boyfriend and I have been living together for 6 years, but he wont bring up marriage! What can I do?"
Girl, if you move in with him--make sure you get your Memberhip Card to the "Waiting for my Man to propose to Me Club"--because they'll be mailing you your card the next day. A man has no reason to buy the cow when he gets the milk for free. If you move in with him, he'll be getting Free Sex, a Free Maid, and half his bills paid--so what reason does he have to rush and marry you when you give it away for Free?
2007-01-03 12:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. don't move in w/someone until you are married! if you do, that is where the problems start. you should NOT move in together until you have made a commitment in marraige. my pastor said that. do NOT or else you're relationship could end up in the dumps. take my word for it. tell him you need time, and that is rushing it. tell him if he really loves you then he will wait. and stay strong. ignore other guys comments about this (if they say ya), because they could care less. PS~ and my pastor isn't just a pastor. he's smart about regular-life-things. trust me.
2007-01-03 11:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no!!! listen it makes things really great at first but after a while you will need your own space! i have been living with my girlfriend for about 3 years now and sometimes i go nuts! we moved in with each other too soon just like your boyfriend is thinking but believe me it can wait..i love my girlfriend but i do miss having my own space and privacy...it is a big comitment and should only happen if you plan on getting married some day..please think long and hard about this...
2007-01-03 11:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by super steve 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not a good thing its only been 3 months sounds like hes getting way to involved way to fast
2007-01-03 11:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by freeloader13 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i waited 4 years before moving in with my bf and 8 b/f i bought a house with him but I have boundary issues :P
meanwhile my best friend moved in and bought a house with his bf after 6 months....
different strokes for different folks. Just make sure you're ready and honest with yourself whatever your decision.
2007-01-03 11:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say no because its only been three months. I guess it depends are you sleeping together? Don't make the mistake of having a baby if this relationship isnt a guaranteed thing.
2007-01-03 11:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Smartest Man Alive 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way. After three months, you still don't really know him. Of course the decision is up to you, but it isn't a good idea by standards of myself or anyone I know.
2007-01-03 12:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by fl_omicron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋