whats worse u cheating on your bf or your bf cheating on u with your BEST FREIND!!!!...i was just curious ..i wouldn't even think of cheating but they both r horriable things for anybody 2 do ..give me a explanation !!!!
2007-01-03 11:11:48 · 31 answers · asked by redneck1ofakind01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cheating. You know better, He don't. Men think with the brain below the belt. Women think with the other brain.
2007-01-03 11:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think we are far too hard on ourselves in relationships in terms of absolute ownership of another human being. If your relationship can withstand and rebound from your weaknesses, and recognize why either of you would seek out another partner in the first place, then perhaps that will indicate where your bond is the weakest.
A guy cheats for the excitement, the conquest, the seduction which are all the things that are missing once he consumates his love for you physically. The hardest part for guys to overcome is the realization that there has to be a connection spiritually, emotionally, financially, intellectually on one another- being a part of someone's life is far more than the occasional 15min romp in the bedroom.
If either of you were to cheat on one another, ask yourselves why and if the answer isn't legitimate and truthful then it is time to move on to another partner, for in the long run you will ultimately keep hurting each other.
2007-01-03 11:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ I think what would be worse in my opinion is me cheating on my boyfriend because I was the one who did that horrible thing. I would feel really bad. I would feel more bad then If he cheated on me with my best friend. I was the one who made a mistake and ruined a wonderful relationship.
2007-01-03 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is worse if I would cheat , that means I have lost respect for my self , I can get over a man cheating on me , and move on , but I think if I cheated that would be hard for me to get over . And I have children , I would not want them to see that they have a mother like that , and then they might think that it is ok to cheat on their loved one .
2007-01-03 11:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither is worse than the other. Cheating is mean and proves no love for the victims. No good can come of it. The old excuse that he/she meant nothing is nonsense.
2007-01-03 11:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by dcfingringhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't it be both the same? Cheating is cheating and any and all party's get hurt.........No one comes out a winner from cheating.
2007-01-03 11:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are wrong but it is so much worse to be cheated on.
2007-01-03 11:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither one is worse then the other. cheating is wrong either way. if youre mad at him for cheating on you, dont seek revenge at the bottom with him. hes stooped lower then you. dont follow him. keep him down there, he was wrong.. if you dont reaact in a vicious way, which he hopes you do- to make him look better, it will make him feel like a complete _____.
2007-01-03 11:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie Gee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is trashy and mean to cheat period. It is all bad. Hurting and being hurt will get you no where but miserable. What goes around comes around. Why not just sow good seeds of love and being trustworthy!
2007-01-03 11:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by tennessee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you either case is terrible. after all cheating is cheating and in the end if both cheats then both will end up getting hurt.
2007-01-03 11:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by L.Sincere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋