Walked in on my Dad...?

Question

I'm a little drunk right now, so please bear with me if I'm not entirely making sense...

Just over an hour ago I walked in on my Dad. Alone, in the living room with Babestation. I had already told him I was going to bed, but as I was washing for bed, I couldn't get this new soap to open, yadayada- I went down to ask him to open it for me. All credit to him, he did try and sort out the soap for me while keeping himself covered and after quickly changing the channel to sports. I saw that the top of his pants were zipped down and open after I noticed the channel he was viewing. I just said 'That's okay I can deal with it' and tried to get him to give up with the soap. Anyway, he did so I ran upstairs.

I'm f/19- should I be feeling this freaked out??? It's 11.30pm right now and as I said, I'm a little tipsy- I needed to swig a big glass of wine after that!!!

But please serious answers only- I really am FREAKED OUT.

Can someone please tell me what to do/how to feel? Thanks!

EDIT: My family have a fairly closed relationship re. sex and such- we sort of just pretend that it doesn't exist, so I can't really talk to my Mum, even if I wanted to!

Also I don't know if I mentioned- it was in the living room, on the couch. We all, including I, *sit on the couch*. Yes, that couch!

Thanks for the thoughts so far- I appreciate them. I need to know honestly if I'm being stupid by freaking out.

*Hope this add on works- I've not used this before

I obviously should elaborate- I'm in England, where the legal drinking age is 18. Also, I decided to get a glass of wine after said event. Just wanted to stick up for myself a little here- I'm legally able to drink alcohol in my country. (Also, I only said I was a little bit drunk, i.e. tipsy enough to post my situation here in the hope of some advice)

Answer 1

i know your feeling. yes, its normal to feel that way. the thing is, your dad is probably feeling just as bad about what happened for different reasons.when you're calmer, just realize hes an adult, with the same feelings as another sexually active person and both feelings on both sides are extremely normal.

Answer 2

Lol im my opinion you delt with that much better than what i would have done!! I would have probably been phsyicly sick and not bothered waiting around for him to try and open the soap, i would have been so embarassed!! Omg u poor girl. Im only a year older than you, so can totally sympathise with how freaked out u must be! Brave Girl lol.... I bet you wont be able to look eachother in the eye for a while :op xx

Answer 3

First off, how are you drunk @ 19? Second, he's a man and obvioulsy in need of some kind of attention, even if he is forced to give it to himself. Maybe if you didn't go tooling around the house hammered you would have heard the TV and what channel it was on. I dunno, I think you're over reacting to a small situation that doesn't need to be blown out of proportion anymore then it already has.

Answer 4

Always knock before you enter your parents room ! period.
He must be iembarassed too. Dont mention it and never barge in anyone' room like that again. What if be barged in and you were with someone! Every has a right to privacy! Find him a gurlfriend!

Answer 5

It would freak me out and I'm 31. Just remember he is an adult. Just don't mention it. More than likely he is embarrassed and wants to forget as well. Sorry you had to see that.

Answer 6

It is very normal what your dad did! yeah...he did that on your couch but it's not like he was fully naked and putting all his body fluids all over it! Cut him some slack...and I would not mention it!! Keep it a secret between you, your dad, and yahoo!!

Answer 7

first of all drinking doesn't help any thing it just adds to the problem. your dad is probably just as wigged out as you are that he got caught doing that By you at least you didn't walk in on him having sex just don't think about it

Answer 8

It's OK. It's just your Dad. He is a man after all and you damn well know how horny we are and when everyones in bed we tend to watch porn and spank the monkey. Give him a break and relax.

Answer 9

buy your dad a small tv for his bedroom use on his next birthday, and nicely joke that now he can watch babestation as much as he likes.

Answer 10

WHERE IS YOUR MUM? IF THERE STILL TOGETHER THEN I THINK ITS A LITTLE WEIRD. DAD SHOULD HAVE WENT TO THE BEDROOM, OR AT LEAST MADE SURE YOU WERE ASLEEP.