Ok there is this girl that i went out with a few years a go but then she moved to Vegas, not she has moved back about 100 miles away from me , I really like her and she said she still really likes me but there is one problem she has a boyfriend! How do i get past this and ask her out?
2007-01-03 10:59:57 · 40 answers · asked by ibanezalex91 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
♥ This is a toughie. If I were you I would wait and not ask her out. You could tell her your feelings for her. But it would be a little bit wrong If you asked her out and she had a boyfriend. If she has a boyfriend and still likes you, then why is she still with her boyfriend. You might need to do some thinking. Sounds to me like somethings not as it seems. But hey I could be wrong. Tell her how you feel but not right away, you need to do some thinking about you and her and why is she still in this relationship with her boyfriend If she still likes you.
2007-01-03 11:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've seen the movie Harry Potter and the Goblet Of Fire, then you'll understand dat harry went thru the same thing. If the girl likes you, then why is she with someone else? Doesn't that mean she likes him too? Dont get me wrong there, but that boy has some feelings too. You should advice ur girl to first tell him about this matter of liking you, so that they might break up, then your road is clear! Otherwise, like in the movie, wait for the guy to die...just kidding! Wait till the guy drops her and way ur way clear!
2007-01-03 23:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to date her while she still have a boyfriend. If she cares for you like she says then she will leave him and be with you .. why would you want to be second string and doing with her what she just turns around and go back and do with another guy..
My opinion you need to get someone else if she doesnt want to leave her man for you... Cause it would be obviously clear that she is still with him and think about it like this if she would do this too her boyfriend now ,what makes you htink she wouldnt do it too you when you and her are together and some other guy comes along
2007-01-03 11:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and just do it. At least she'll know you want to and that she has options. Waiting on the sidelines is about the worst thing you can do.
*edit*
Ok a lot of the advice coming to you is saying to keep your feelings in the bag and wait him out.
It doesn't work! I've done it to many times. I've had girls that dumped one guy for the next multiple times without leaving space between relationships. And when I finally told them (despite the fact that they were in a relationship) they got mad that I didn't say something earlier.
You don't touch your friends girlfriends, any one else...walk all over their toes.
I don't know about you but for me its... No more mister nice guy.
May the best man win.
2007-01-03 11:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by prof_snakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you have answered your own question. Get past the fact that she has a boyfriend and ask her out. What is the worst that can happen? She will either say yes or no.
2007-01-03 11:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , if the boyfriend is someone you know , be a friend and back off. But if you don't know the guy , ask the girl if she would be interested in dating you again. Just like that ! I mean , if there is no pending marriage , it's fair play to inquire !
2007-01-03 11:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by julia kristen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, bro.
Take her out and tell her you want to be with her, period.
He ain't YOUR boyfriend. It is HORRIBLE advice to not ask this girl out on behalf of someone you have no resposibility to.
If she turns you down, consider her gone. Live well in the meantime. If she dumps her guy and calls you and you're available, go for it; if she calls and you're with someone, then it's too late and too bad for her.
Don't focus on this ONE girl you feel you can't have. If you don't think you can have her, then you can't, end of story.
I know it's hard, my friend. I'm sure she's great, but she's not the end all.
2007-01-03 11:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Marc M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 miles away!!! She might as well still be in Vegas. Geographically undesirable. Plus she is with somebody.
2007-01-03 11:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by nabullard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't!!!
If she likes you the way you like her then she would have left this boyfriend of hers. So until she is single just hang out. Get yourself out there date a little, mingle with the other girls and see what happens. Don't spend your entire life waiting for this girl. You may miss out on a lot of things.
2007-01-03 11:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by sowhateverb69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her how she feels about you honestly.If she likes you and would seriously consider a relationship with you ( at this point tell her you like her too) but ONLY im stressing ONLY start the new relationship when shes ended the one shes in.
If she doesnt feel the same way, don't be blue about it, there are other girls too.
Goodluck x
2007-01-03 11:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Staci 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋