First off I have no clue if its right to be bisexual and its driving me nuts... I can't decide wether or not its right or wrong. I was dating this person for over a year and this year they will be going to college. They basically told me that they had changed and had no feelings for me in that way anymore... They enjoy hanging out with people more their age because I'm only a sophomore in high school and I don't seem mature enough to them. It weird because he always told me age never mattered and this is coming out of no where... You can definately tell he has changed. Should I give up hoping all together that things can ever work out between us? People may think this is just dumb high school love cause im young but it's not. You could tell we were hardcore in love and we were ready to spend forever with each other... I don't know what to do anymore because I left most of my friends for him because they didn't like it... Someone please help =( He's all I think about anymore.
2007-01-03 10:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by Pandamonium 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, you are not old enough to even know the first thing about "true love". It is "puppy love" at your age. Trust me, I've been there, done that.
Bisexual? Where in this equation did the "bisexual" come in to play? If you both were "hardcore in love and we were ready to spend forever with each other"; the bisexual should NOT be in this equation at all.
You are still young, don't give your body to a man/guy until your wedding night. Save yourself for your husband, the man you will spend forever with.
Most guys sleep with their girlfriend just to get the hole in their belt and tell their guy friends how easy it was to get in the bed with the girl. Respect your self more than that!!!
Let this guy go, he is heading off to college and he will not have the time of day for you. Enjoy your high school years, single but looking. ;O)
2007-01-03 10:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all I would like to say that its not right or wrong to be bisexual, that is simply who you are. And your true friends will not leave you because of who you are. They will respect you for what you are and who you are. True friends will always be by your side no matter what your sexuality.
As far as, your love situation that's another question. If he is the first person whom you have been with emotionally and physically then it will be hard to let him go. Simply because he was your first. Trust me I know this one from experience. It took me about a year and a half to get over him. And to this day I still think about him. But you have to ask yourself is it love because he is your first, or is it lust because he was your first?
Secondly if it was hard core love then he would not have left. He could love you but not be in love with you. Y'all may have been in love at first but with time people seem to fall out of love. This could have been all that has happened.
If it really is true love then let him go, if he comes back then that's how you know it was really true love.
2007-01-03 19:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by sowhateverb69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you weren't ready to spend the rest of your life with him because you couldn't even decide if your lifestyle was right. In my opinion it's wrong. but take care of the matter at hand first. Now, if he can't see your value, it's not cause of age. that's an excuse. He is just ready to move on with his life but not nice enough to tell the truth. Plus.... don;t worry about things working out. Move on with your life. Though you don;t wanna hear this. Take time to yourself. and explore who your really are. then decide whether being "bi" is okay for you. Let him go.
2007-01-03 18:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by beautyzhername 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is seriously just a young love type of situation. Move on with your life, date, grow, mature, live.........a few years from now you will be laughing at how silly you were acting for the person. Trust me I know from experience
2007-01-03 18:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN THE **** UP
2007-01-03 18:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by CRUNK 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋