Can someone help my little brother out?

Question

I am a high school senior and my brother is a freshman and I am in a very weird position. He is kind of a little nerdy and always gets picked on and made fun of. Well, its getting bad as some boys in his gym class one day were making fun of him in the showers and took a picture of him naked with a digital camera. He was like barely an inch (his size) in the picture and now the picture is being circulated around school. I unfortunately had to see it and now girls and guys are teasing him bad. The girls are waving their pinky fingers at him in the hallway (maybe I am niave, but what does that mean? ) and the guys are calling him names. He wont tell me who did it and he just wont talk to me or anyone. What should I do? He says he is embarrased and will just have to deal with it but I know its bad because he said its worse then when my other sister caught him masturbating in his bedroom to a picture of Tara Reid

Answer 1

I'm really sorry to hear about your brother's situation...that is really humiliating and cruel what those guys did to him. You're his brother and I can tell that you care about him, so you're going to have to talk to the principal for him (since I doubt he would, given he's the victim here). I don't know what the school will do for him, but it's important that they be informed if they don't already know about it. And if you're brother happens to tell you about who those guys that took the photo were, you need to tell the school that- they should be expelled, honestly. I really hope things get better for you guys and that your brother is able to move past this at some point

Answer 2

People are jerks, so mostly all you can do is tell them to shutup and live their own freakin lives. MAke sure your bro knows that if he doesn't talk to you, you can't make his school life more "livable" There really (unfortunently) isn't a way to make people be nice all you can do is wait for something else to take its place that people will obsess over.
If you find out who did it, telling is a good option, but beware, the guy might think your bro turned him in and do more stuff.
Good luck and hooray for you being a descent brother. Having at least one person support him will help your bro feel a little better.

Answer 3

pick on the guys who pick on ur bro. stick up for him. find the people who took the pic and beat them up and try to stop the flow of the pic. waving ur pinky finger is flicking them off in pakistan or showing how mall his penis is. ive heard both. i dont reallly know myself.it must be really bad, just be there for your bro and help him out. but dont force him to talk, let him talk when hes ready, but let him know that your there for him

Answer 4

I agree with the first two answers you got!! Some one needs to deal with this. If he can't tell, maybe you should! Start with a guidence councelor. Your poor brother, that is heart breaking:( Also the pinky is to indicate his supposed penis size. Mean huh?????????

Answer 5

I would just notify the school officials about the picture, then the best thing to do is ignore it, he sound like a normal kid to me.

Answer 6

I, personally think that you should go talk to your school counselor about this. I think they are the best to help you get this resolved and your brother to feel better, and all privately.

Answer 7

as his older brother, I feel you should definately stand up for him. High school kids talk...you can find out who did it and tell them to apologize. also, things like this in h.s. fade quickly. One day he will be able to laugh about it.

Answer 8

the pinky thing means he is small. Turn in the person that did this I pretty much think that is illegal

Answer 9

have your parents change him schools it will get worse.

Answer 10

tell the authorities man! thats illegal isnt it?