im 16 and im a short indian girl who really confused about everything.lol. you can say i was born confused. but anyways theres this guy who i've liked for the longest time and slowly i started to get over him and now im like 92% over him and just a small part of me likes him and recently we had an argument and i kinda said something i shouldnt have..i said "i just cant tell you, not now atleast!" i didnt want him to know i liked him because im not as good looking as he is. i mean im kinda sorta a little bit pretty and all but hes super hot and everyone loves him. so i think its best not to. but now i got myself in this big mess and have to decide whether or not i should tell him or not?? since im practically almost over him..should i tell him??? or would that set me up for another heartbreak and more crying?
thanks everyone for your responses! have a SPECTACULAR day!
2007-01-03 10:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like I said before, your beautiful in your own way and you will never know until you ask him. What do you think is worse? Thinking about the good or bad things he could say to that. Though I am sure he is not that rude if there is something that everyone loves about him. Or would you rather know for sure his feelings? and then figure out yours.
2007-01-03 10:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by El Bajo Uno; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let it be. To be honest, he probably knows that you like him. A 16-yr old girl saying "I just can't tell you"... there's like 2 possible things it could be, most likely that you have the hots for him. Just leave it alone, if he asks say nevermind. I don't think you should put yourself down, though... looks aren't everything, and you are probably better looking than you say. If he likes you then he will come to you, don't embarrass yourself by telling him how you feel. Once the dust settles if you want to see once and for all if he likes you, flirt with him etc and see if he asks you out, but I'm a big believer in not revealing more than you have to, let him chase you. Happy New Year!
2007-01-03 18:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you have to have confidence in yourself. It has to begin there. There is no need to tell him if you have no plans of pursuing him. You would be setting yourself up because, say he is really diggin' you as well, but you say now that you are over him and he wants to get with you....ya see. If you don't want him...let it go...
2007-01-03 18:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get over him and find someone else then don't tell him, but if you still like him then just say so. If he isn't interested don't feel too bad for it. Guys come and go like seasons!
2007-01-03 18:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by dmstanley02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-01-03 18:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋