I am in love with one of my friends and I have been for a long time I told her how I feel. She doesnt know what to do and I think I scared her by telling her that. So she just wants to be my friend right now. I respect that but I have to get over my feeling for her, but its so hard does anyone have any ideas?
We are both in are 20's and have known each other for over 6 years, a part of me wants to run away so I can get over her, but I cant do that she is one of my realy good friends. I will miss her to much, what can I do? Help Me...
2007-01-03 10:20:04 · 5 answers · asked by B to the E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay her friend. She doesn't love you that way, but she does love you as a friend. She will be hurt more if you run away and you don't want her to hurt. Maybe she will like you one day. Be patient and let time take it's course.
2007-01-03 10:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is right by you. If yall have been friends for 6 years and the relationship is completely platonic than she probably sees you as a brother. That is obviously not what you want. If I were you I would separate myself from her, you need to not see her for a while. Make yourself go on some date do your best to get over her. Yall might be able to be really truly friend in the future but right now you need to work on getting over her.
2007-01-03 18:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, does she love you? one thing you can do is sit her down with a mediator or therapist and talk things through. if she doesn't fare those same feelings, then you need to just accept that. don't worry, if that fails, then she might not be the one for you and wait for the One to come along(the REAL One)
2007-01-03 18:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by angel_love_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me dude it wont work. your in the friend zone, and once your in the friend zone, the female will never be romantically intrested in you. dont listen to these other females, they're just being nice. try and be more assertive and womanizing when you meet new women, its the only thing their attracted to even though they will tell you that isnt true. it is
2007-01-03 18:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Phil Magroin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay her friend its not worth losing a friend over and maybe someday she may like you that way!!!!
2007-01-03 18:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by chauntel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋