A new girl started working with us few months ago. she know that I like her( one of my stupid coworker told her indirectly).
As one of her good girl-friend quite the job two days ago, I asked her if she misses her and if I can replaced her old friend and be her new friend, she said she(her old friend) was a good girl, Then asked her what about me? “I am a bad guy or good one?’ she said I am ok...
Then later while talking I asked her, why she is so nice to me, is she only nice to me, or to everybody, she said to everybody, then I asked her that I thought I was special, she said, everybody is special
Then later we were talking about a party at our boss house this weekend, I asked her if she will be there, she said yes, I told her to make plan to stay late. As the party will end at 10 pm, but we will go to nearby famous club.. She said “we will see''
What all this mean.. No interest or she is shy or nervous, . Should I ask her at the party ag
2007-01-03 10:19:28 · 21 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a no to me... sorry
2007-01-03 10:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it one day at a time. Don't try to hard, if she likes you then u will know in time. Stop with all the questions. This will probably get very annoying to her in time.
When u are at the party ask her to dance, or just talk as friends. Take it slow and if doesn't work out with her, move on you deserve better.
2007-01-03 18:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That poor girl is not used to the attention you are throwing at her. Give her time and stop been too forceful, you are driving her away.
If you take it a little easier, you are helping yourself and her. Asking questions that put her in a spot is not doing any good. Try to get to know more people and most probably you will land to have more friends and usually not knowing it you will find the right girlfriend. Cheer up and take life a little easier and who knows your soulmate comes into your life.
2007-01-03 18:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, means yes, no means no. SHE IS SAYING "NO"!
This girl is nice to everybody and doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
"we'll see" means Not in your wildest dreams.
sorry to be so blunt.
If she said "maybe" it would mean you might have a chance.
She told you she is nice to everyone.
She is being polite to you, thinking she is being honest by saying "we'll see". When in fact, she is being misleading, and untruthful.
if a girl is interested in a guy.........She Does NOT play hard to get!
And you cannot replace one friend with another.
just tell her you would like to be her friend, and see what she says to that. If she says "just friends"........Or "you are like a brother to me" .......... you have to decide if you have enough friends, and if you don't need another sister!!!
women have a way of leading guys on, with oh, we are just friends, then "you are like a brother to me"
2007-01-03 18:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound interested .But some people are just afraid or shy .so if you keep getting the run around , find another girl to like
2007-01-03 18:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by barcan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she just wants to be your friend dont further push the issue let her approach you . The ball is in her court and if she doesn't respond then let her remain just your friend at work and move on with your life
2007-01-03 18:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's not interested. When a girl's interested. It's very obvious. They act "easy" and give lots of eye contact that you don't even realize unless you keep tally of her every moves.
Move on. Go for the customers instead.
2007-01-03 18:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont lay it on too thick man, if its going to be worth anything it will have to develop. You seem too desperate to me, so i would guess that is coming across to her too.
Just chill out, if its right for u both, it will happen with minimal effort.
2007-01-03 18:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont ever ask again ever! Leave it alone 100% it isn't worth it. If she doesnt say yes the first time fook her
2007-01-03 18:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Steve H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she likes you as a friend only, and is trying to be polite and let you down easy.
2007-01-03 18:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by angelistic_flirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she is just a happy go lucky person and not interested in a relationship. Don't push things, just take them for what they are, and enjoy them.
2007-01-03 18:22:33 · answer #11 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋