i don't know what to do no more help me please!!!!?

Question

ok here is the thing i have a friend, who is in love with one of her friend. ok they was just friends but he make it look like he was in to her.and she fall for it, so that when she had sex with him not knowin that all he want and now he get what. he stop calling her, he don't talk to her when he see her in school and to put an all that he he now trying the same thing with her now i can't tell her cuz my friend who is hurtin now don't want nobody to know. and now i don't know what to do i have a friend who is a bout to get hurt an i can't her and i can't do nothing bout the one who is hurt.what should i say to the one who is hurt and do you thing i should tell the one who is about to get hurt????????? help

Answer 1

You need to be as brutally honest with your friend as you thing she can handle. Maybe you need to toughen her up if you are afraid she is very fragile? But you may want to make sure you are in private in case she starts crying or something.

Answer 2

First explain the situation to the girl that has already been hurt and tell her that this guy is about to do it again, tell her that she can stop him from doing the same thing to someone else, all she has to do is allow you to warn this girl. Tell her you will even try and warn her without using your hurt friends name. You are in a situation now where if you don't say anything to your friend that this is about to happen to than you betray her by NOT warning her, but if you do say something you betray your friend that was already hurt. Maybe you should just try and ask for permission first, and if your hurt friend doesn't give you permission than you should tell her this other girl is your friend also and it is your responsibility as a friend to warn her. That is what I would do. I would just try everything I could to leave names out of it.

Answer 3

I think that you should talk to the friend that is hurt. She's obviously feeling bad because she thought that she could trust him...but he abused their relationship and is definately not worth her affection. Tell her that she is better than that and deserves better. She seems that she definately needs to talk to a friend, you! About the friend that is about to get hurt, you should warn her about what happened with your other friend. However, maybe conceal your hurt friend's identity since she doesn't want anybody to know. Your friend that is about to get hurt deserves to know the truth, and you should be a good friend and tell her. Good luck with everything!

Answer 4

I think you should tell the one that is already hurt that she needs to get over him and find a real man not a little immature boy. You should tell the friend who is going to get hurt that he has done this to another friend, but don't mention names. If she does not believe you then that's her mistake and she'll have to pay for it.

Answer 5

You tell the friend that is heading for trouble that you know for a fact, that she is going to be used and dumped, and you are sorry but you can not tell her who was the person that did get hurt. all you can do is warn her, you can not stop her unless she is underage then the guy can be charged with rape, and it might not be a bad idea to tell him that if these girls are underage

Answer 6

well tell the 1 whos about to get hurt what he did just don't say who he did it to. As for the one who is hurt, talk to her help her emotions get out I know if that was me I wouldnt want to keep all that bottled up inside me. (I would also want to kikc the guy in the balls as hard as i could)

Answer 7

WOW! Try sentence structure 101. Tell the new girl what happened with the last girl.

Answer 8

First thing: Learn how to type in correct sentences, that was very hard to read.
Yes, you should say something