well i am 15 and i bearly met my fater when i was 11 and he doesn't like me but what should i do tell him off?????
2007-01-03 09:45:11 · 6 answers · asked by R.I.P. LOCS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well the problem is i am his kid mom never cheated on him
2007-01-05 03:25:37 · update #1
It will be hard but the best thing to do for your future health & well being to to forgive him & pray for him. It would be cool if he accepted you but it's his choice. You should never hate anyone. Hate will turn into uncurable deseases. It's true (espesially unforgiveness) You really don't need his approval anyway because God is the only one who matters & He not only approves of you, he loves you with an unconditional love. Love God back & pray for your dad. God will show him that he was wrong. What ever you do, do not hate anyone. Refuse to allow yourself to be hurt. Set an example & teach him how to love by forgiving him. Forgiving love is the best kind of Love there is! Just ask Jesus!
2007-01-03 10:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by FireCrkR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd start be seeking the truth. If your 15, your old enough to approach this maturly go to your mom if you can or your father and tell them you want and deserve to know the truth. Tell them what you were told and how much it hurts and demand the truth from them. You have the right to know. Your father may have said something becouse he was mad and it may not be the whole truth but either way you do deserve toknow the truth from your parents. Good Luck
2007-01-03 17:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that you should hate him. because if it turns out to be wrong, then that will just cause more problem's, i think you should talk to your mother and "father" about this.
to tell him off? i just think that you should talk to your mom about this and then see if u can meet with him again and talk things through with him. if all else fails then just get to the point and ask "why don't you like me" and don't take any bull.
2007-01-03 17:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never hate him for that
he is the one that is missing out on what you have to give as a child. and if he told your brother that and not you than it might me a possibility that he is trying to get back at your mom for something she did just rmember that WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER
2007-01-03 17:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feel sorry for him because you are not his child and he is missing out badly.
Don't ever hate it only hurts you.
2007-01-03 17:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR MOTHER SOME PEOPLE SAY REALLY MEAN THINGS SOMETIMES BUT THEY DONT MEAN IT BE CALM AND ASK QUESTIONS.YOULL BE OLD ENOUGH TO BE ON YOUR OWN SOON AND THEN YOU WONT HAVE TO SEE HIM EVER AGAIN
2007-01-03 17:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by karasbearas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋