He's 25 I'm 18
I love him so much all I do is cry about this
He says he loves me
I've never led him to believe I know about her so he thinks I'm clueless
2007-01-03 09:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by CrazyBeautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be blunt about it and ask. Or you pop up and find out for yourself. Or you could do a stake-out and see if she comes out.
2007-01-03 09:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you didn't mention how far apart you both live, I don't see a problem in simply visiting him.. if you're both together, and if you know his address, just visit the place and surprise him. Be friendly about it, but be on the look-out for feminine items. If he's living alone, you'll see it. If there's someone else, it would be impossible not to notice another person's belongings. This is my advice if you're too scared to bring it up or are too uncomfortable to confront him in case you're wrong. But with a visit, even if you're wrong, it won't be suspicious since he knows you like him a lot and simply came to visit. Sneaky? Maybe, but if you're concerned, you have the right to know.
2007-01-03 18:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by X16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's think about this... If you don't even know where he lives you probably need to elarn more about him before you go moving in with him. Sounds shady to me if he is hiding something like that. Maybe she is not an ex after all.
2007-01-03 17:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Smelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you have a problem with your boyfriend living with his old girlfriend and you are afarid to ask him about it, eaze your way into the conversation. Be just like:"i love you and you know that, so please, i want to have a truthful relationship, are you still living with your ex?" If he can't except that you want to be truthful on both sides, then the relationship doesn't mean a lot to him, and maybe its time for you to move on. Good Luck!
2007-01-03 17:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you cant control where you live for a while...
its hard to get back on your own two feet lots of times...
thats a major turn off for girls...
oh im living with my EX....
thats just so unsexy...
its embarrassing...
dont ask about her...
if she is an ex, and he is gonna move in with you.. forget about it...
unless he is with her after he moves in with you, then kick him out.
2007-01-03 17:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by thoughts_of_zen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE UP FRONT AND OPEN ASK HIM STRAIT UP ABOUT IT, SOMETHING HAS HAD TO TRIGGER U THINKING THE WAY U R, GO WITH UR GUT GET TO THE BUTTOM OF IT SO U CAN MOVE ON, HE IS MORE THAN LIKELY PLAYING U
2007-01-03 17:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by yourboytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect, he's two timing. Dump him and don't look back. Life is too short worrying about people like that
2007-01-03 17:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by tunekibhn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds dramatic and also seems like you are getting used.. Either deal with it or leave him.
2007-01-03 17:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by tchem75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋