i doubt there is really much that can be said, but i figured id try this anyways. so a while ago i started liking this girl, and we she kinda started liking me too...but some things happened and it didnt work out and soon after she started going out with another guy. as time went on, i realized that i am in love with her...=\...but i still want to be happy for her. im not really the type to complain usually, but i just need to get over her...any sudjestions? shes basically one of my best friends as well...so id really like to keep her a friend...
2007-01-03 09:35:35 · 9 answers · asked by Brandon C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...i understand you saying that its prolly a "crush"...but i dont think this is the case...its been over a year that she's been going out with him...and i just cant stop caring for her...idk...me and her talk alot, and its not like awkward when we do...it just hurts seeing the two of them together...thats the main reason i want to get rid of these feelings...so things will be normal again...
2007-01-03 09:51:20 · update #1
You can't get over her until you're ready to let go. You have to be willing to accept that you can't be with her and that you're ready to move on. It's hard and it sux, i know, but if you really want to be just friends then maybe you should try letting go before you try being friends. You might end up bottling your feelings for her and it's going to hurt you too much to see her with other guys. So just distance yourself for a while until you're sure you've let go and you're ready to move on to someone else. But don't try to replace her or get over her by dating someone else or you'll just hurt the other girl and you'll be dissapointed because she's not like the one you love.I tried getting over this guy that i really liked by substituting him with other guys and stuff like that but none of the other guys measured up to what i saw in him. I realised i liked the idea of being with him to much and that's what stopped me from letting go. Then finally i was ready to call it quits and i let go of whatever was attachting me to him.
All i can say is you just have to let go. But you can only do that when you really want to and when you're done holding on to what can never be and accept that it's over.
2007-01-03 09:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think that your emotions might be confusing you, and obviously you can not trust them when you are not clear, you might be having a "crush" because love is something much more deep than you can imagine, it is commitment, respect, work towards the growth of the relationship, give it time and as long as you tell your self she is not the one for you and you accept it, and let it go, you will be over her in no time, trust me, you might laugh at it latter on, but right now be patient with yourself, best of luck!
2007-01-03 09:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Elsa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find something else that will occupy your time. If you want to keep her as a friend. Keep your distance. Because what will happen is that one day you're going to tell her how you feel which will put her in an akward positon since she's dating someone else.
All I can say if its meant to be then eventually you'll be together again. Don't push her and don't wait for her. Continue to live your life. Trust me it will get easier with time.
2007-01-03 09:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 23:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should think about what is a head of you not concentrating on her to much. However still have social conversations with her ask how she is a etc. consider that you just might meet the perfect person.
2007-01-03 09:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way to get over her is to stop seeing/talking to her and get other things going in your life.
2007-01-03 09:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK FIRST OFF ALL DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER UNLESS YOU THINK SHE"LL TAKE IT WELL! today i got my heart broken by my best guy
friend. i thought he loved me and so i told him i loved him and now he wont speak to me!
take my advise or youll be under a lot of STRESS!
2007-01-03 09:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by Meranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't communicate with her at all and hide all of the stuff that reminds you of her until you find someone that makes you crazy.
2007-01-03 09:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her.
2007-01-03 09:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by bryce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋