hi my question comes with a story. here it is: my dad left my mom when i was 3 for another women. he was with that women till he died. my father died when i was 12 and when they were pulling the plug on him my mom turned to this women and said ill need all his information so that i can start getting a check from his death! my mom harassed this women over stupid **** , saying that I/me wanted things . but i never asked for these things i never knew about them! it was things only my mom would have wanted! this women had already givin me the things that i asked for! anyways my mom told me that it was betterthat my dad died because she would be getting a big check (my child support check!) , so things were better this way! and now im 18 my mom called me today and asked me abunch of info on my dads death. she said she was elegable for his social sacurity check! OMG! she says she is going to talk to someone about it and start getting money from his SS! i think its just wrong! am i right?
2007-01-03 09:34:08 · 8 answers · asked by Dungonecrazy11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom was mad at me when i got married because she wanted to keep my child support check! so she lied to the place that gave her the money telling them i wasnt married so that she would continue to get my child support! my mom is a ******* gold digger!
2007-01-03 09:36:36 · update #1
she even takes my sisters money and my sister is 31. my mom is supposed to get the money but she is supposed to let my sister spend it on things she and her 2 daughters need instead my mom wouldnt let her spend it unless she got her a car, a new bed, a room makeover and a bunch of other crap! (she lives with my sis and her to kids and takes advantage of everyone. she sits on her but in bed and makes people do everything for her. she gets madewhen you say no to her. she makes peoples lives hell. shes a total *****! and i just think that its wrong of her to get anymore of my dads money ! she was only common in law married to my dad as was the other chick . but this other chick was with my dad practically all my life. and i dont see why such a horrible person (my mom) should be able to get my dads money! its just not right. she is a horrible person and was/is a horrible mother!
2007-01-03 09:44:18 · update #2
your mom is the reason alto of men don't pay child support.If i was that other woman id kicked you moms teeth out If i were you id slap her hard
2007-01-06 18:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just needs money and will do anything to get as much as possible. I think she was right for getting the checks after he died.... Im sure she needed help too, but now that you are 18 and away from her, I think its VERY WRONG, and you should call the people and tell them you are married. You dont want to get into any legal trouble by NOT telling the truth. It was EXTREMELY wrong of her to say that it was BETTER that your dad was gone.... That is ruthless and cold hearted. I wonder if its really blood or ice that flows through her veins!
2007-01-03 17:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that this would feel wrong but unless your Dad and Mom legally divorced she can do these things and yes get money for retirement when she reaches that age. I would let the other Woman know that you've gotten all you wanted and anything else that your Mom ask for is what she would like to have and not you. Distance yourself from her and her ways, because she will eventually try to stick it to you.
2007-01-03 17:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when a father dies, their children are entitled to receive a social security check until you reach 18... It's got nothing to do with being a gold digger. It's entitlement. Now you mom may not have used the right method of getting information but she had the right.
2007-01-03 17:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is wrong my father left me my and my brother when i was 3 months old he never paid one child support but my mom never did anything which i think made her the better person if your my is asking you these questions you need to think if it is a good idea to give her the info. and now that your 18 she is not elegable for that check you are
2007-01-03 17:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by R.I.P. LOCS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what you think....Your Mom was and still is and will always be...His wife....I'm sorry...She was still Married to Your Father....So she is going to get his S.S. Check....I'm sorry you lost your Father...May he rest in Peace....that is all you should worry about....sweetie....Live your life....don't worry about the past.....just be there for your Mom....forgive her....and try to put the past behind you.....Good Luck! You only have One Mom.....i"m sorry you think she is a gold digger... perhaps she needs the money., don't lie and get into any trouble....I hope the best for the both of you...
2007-01-03 17:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly ..im not goin to down your mom or nething..but tht was cold..and wrong ..very wrong..im a blunt person..and yea my parents are divorced and i live with my father...and as soon as he starts talkin shiiiit i chekc him ..like hold up..she dont do u like tht
and i do her the same. i dont wann here their opnion on each other
i wanna think my own way.
and if i was in ur postion..id do something bout tht
and talk to ur step mom
it really helps
and im srry bout ur dad.
<3real
2007-01-03 17:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom needs a talk-in-to and you should be the one to tell her
2007-01-03 23:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by BrOkEn_LuLLabY...♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋