I'm 14 and I have a girls number that I got from the girls sister.I like the girl that's why I got her # but when I call I just hang up because i'm to shy.What should I do!
2007-01-03 09:27:17 · 19 answers · asked by justin campbell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Text her
2007-01-03 09:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, You need to get the number from the girl herself.
This will be the first step.
Is she in any of your classes?
If yes then call her and ask what the home work was or if she can help you with the home work. Something easy to break the Ice. Then after a few calls ask if she would like to go out with a group of friends, hers and yours, get a good group of people and go to the movies or out to eat, something like that.
If she is not in any of your classes or this is too hard for you to do, then you should get her to talk to you in school, accidently walk into her and say your sorry, that is a good way to start a converstation
This will allow you to stay with in your comfront area and still get to know this girl. I know from that the first time talking to someone you like is always hard and scary. You need to try and move pass the shyness by talking about something that you like and she likes, Music, TV, Movies are all good subjects.
Hope this helps
2007-01-03 09:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like it when guys show confidence. Call her up and ask her how her day is going, give her a compliment or two, see if shes free and then suggest a date that is fun and relaxing, i wouldn't recommend a movie, bowling is always good, it breaks the ice and its fun. If you are really nervous, invite a couple friends also, that way its not as stressful and you won't feel as uncomfortable if other people were there.
2007-01-03 09:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you like her TOO MUCH and that will kill you. Just relax she's just a person and she won't make your life any better than it is now. However, If I was you I would be more worried about the latest video games or whatever and just be a kid for a few more years. Once you start dating your whole life changes and not for the better for most people. Relax and just be a kid. I really mean that from the heart.
2007-01-03 09:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by mikearion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just "cowboy up" and ask for her. People hate being hung up on - and if she has caller ID she already knows it's you. Write down what you are going to say before you call. It may change, but it's a start. Say hi, this is ______, how are you doing? I just called to see if you wanted to go out? etc. Just do your best, even tell her that you are a little nervous! She will be flattered.
2007-01-03 09:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her sister the one who gave you the number if her sister likes you, that way you know wether she is interested or not, if she is, then just be polite and ask; say something like: I think you are very nice and would like to go out with you some time, do you think you would like to........go bowlind, hiking, what ever you enjoy doing, with me some day. and go slow, be respectful, and friendly, ask a question, wait for her answer, then she can ask another question and keep it up, do not let the ball drop otherwise it gets boring....... Best of luck making friends.
2007-01-03 09:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Elsa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has caller ID, it'd just be alittle weird...
I know you're nervous, but..just make causualy conversation.
If you're in a class or two with her maybe say:
"What did you think of that test in [class] today? I thought it was a killer!"
Or:
"The weather has gotten so cold all of a sudden, don't you think so?"
But..girl's like to talk about them self [usually] so, ask her things about her.
Just don't make it too casual..don't go on and on about how cold it is lol..just act like if you were talking to your best friend.
2007-01-03 09:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEK! don't call until you're ready to actually talk. it earns you the reputation of a stalker. so when you are ready to talk to this girl, then you should gather up all the courage you have and tell her how you feel. just think about how much you like her and tell her! that should do the trick. be sincere and don't act scripted.
hope this helped you...
mads
2007-01-03 09:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out. just get it passed u. If u cant talk to her then what are the chances of u having a relationship with her which are none. just go through the couple of akward mintues and u'll be glad it will be done. if she rejects then she isnt worth it. good luck.
2007-01-03 09:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, does this girl know you? cuz if she doesnt...then it will be even more awkward if you call her...so id say go up and talk to her one day...just be yourself...dont have to make it a big thing.
if you do know her, then just call her...i know it is scary, but just calling is basically the hardest part...once you and her start talking it will become easier to continue =)
well, hope this helped! good luck!
2007-01-03 09:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋