2007-01-03 09:03:35 · 6 answers · asked by JOHN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls are reluctant to turn a guy down face-to-face because some guys just do not handle rejection well. So a girl can get into the defensive habit of being friendly-noncommital/somewhat positive in a face-to-face encounter, and then just ignoring the guy's calls later on.
It may be that you are coming on too strong to girls you ask for dates, or it may be that something in your attitude or manner convinces the girls that if they were honest with you and said they didn't want to date you, you might get snarky or downright nasty to them.
If you have a girl or girls who you are just friends with, who you feel comfortable with, you might ask them if there is something about your mannerisms, way of speaking, or attitude that might make someone uncomfortable giving you a refusal to your face. If they answer "Yes," please don't "kill the messenger." Use this as an opportunity to find out what you might want to change about the way you do things.
And please don't fall into putting all girls and all guys into the same antagonistic groups (i.e., "why can't girls be upfront like guys..."). Some girls are as upfront as guys, and some guys are not upfront at all. People are all different and making sweeping generalities is a way to turn people off to you. Especially sweeping generalities that declare all girls wrong and all guys right.
2007-01-03 09:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by Karin C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think girls are too shy to say their true feelings. They don't wanna hurt the guy asking them out, so they immediately say "yes" to a date.
But not all girls are like that. It'll just take some time to find Mrs.Right.
The BEST advice I ever got from a guy friends was "be PATIENT, you'll find your soulmate sooner or later" Good Luck :D
2007-01-03 09:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are the same just like all guys are not the same! Not all guys are upfront. hopefully you will find a nice girl who doesn't lie and hopefully ill find a nice guy who doesn't lie!
2007-01-03 09:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by MaH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women will keep their word others lie for some reason they are unable to be truthful. If there are any truthful women I`d like them to contact me.
2007-01-03 09:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks suck, what can i say
2007-01-03 09:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the world of dating
2007-01-03 09:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋