ok ..two years ago my ex's , uncle went crazy and cut the throat of a 4 yr old girl and the throat of her 24 yr old mother and raped her.both dead .Since then we had a baby together and then split up. she took me to court and racked up a ton of legal fee's and got nothing, anyway now she is telling me she is going to move to that trailer with another uncle of hers no less so that she can save money to pay off her lawyer fee from trying to gain full custody of our child . we have joint custody now - her ploys backfired on her if anything and she get less then what i offered in the first place . i know that doesnt have anything to do with my question but it makes me feel vindicated.
My question is - should i not have a problem with her moving into the murder death trailor, i just keep wonder what room my son will get - the room the 4 yr old was killed or the room her mother was killed and raped - and yes i do mean killed and raped. as you might be able to tell by my tone i am againstit
2007-01-03 08:55:27 · 6 answers · asked by iambk4life 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
you could make a case of "the sanity of the child", if you think that it might harm the child mentally then you have one hell of a case, but i would push the subject, just think of how many kids are afraid of the dark because of "ghosts", now magnify that by 100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000o0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000o00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000o0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000o0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000o0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000opercent because an actual murder took place there, so i would definately not let this go
2007-01-03 17:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by popeye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live in a house that once had a fire (before we moved in it) and I will tell you this, there has never been so much bad luck in my life, like little things, waking up to a dead battery in a new vehicle, finding 400 maggots in the bottom of the cupboards, you name it.
I would NOT let my son move into that triler, that is disgusting, I would rather live in a bachelor apartment!
Do what you have to do, do not let your son move into that trailer, its bad enough he will be called trailer trash, but living in a murder site..sick as hell.
I would forbid my ex from seeing my kid, if that was the case.
Are there no other places he could live in???
think about it.
OH BY THE WAY...if you ex really loved his son, he wouldnt want him growing up in a such a place. serioulsy, my son lives in a nice suburban home, not a rape and murder trailer.
Your son should have the same.
2007-01-03 18:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask a lawyer what rights you have for this issue. Or maybe you could make an out of court deal with the mother to increase child support for a while to make it easier for her to afford different accomadations. In all likelihood, she's probably not very comfortable with the idea of having to live in that trailer either. Good luck with this.
2007-01-03 17:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by zenobia2525 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats alittle kreapy, but understand that issues like these never need to be addressed around your child, this would freak him or her out completely, and that on your part would be like telling your child a horrible story every night before he or she went to bed...
2007-01-03 17:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
She's not living with another crazy uncle is she?
That would bother me more.
2007-01-03 16:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by beanietara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry on this one
2007-01-03 17:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋