Ok lately I have been very upset about going to school i'm in 9th grade and I literally hate going to school. I wanna learn and try but at my school everyone is always sick, and sicknesses are going around, everyone is mean, and the teachers are so hard on us.. I really don't like it there.I have been worrying so much about this that its makeing me sick and i can't sleep from it.. My friend told me about a website for home schooling and I really like it and think it would be better for me I mean i feel comfortable in my own house and I think I would be able to concentarte more.. right now in school im not concentrating that good im too worried about what everyone else thinks.. and im to worried that i am gonna get sick.. I told my mom about this and she said I need to go into a mental institution and she said no about the homeschooling thing.. im really upset now because i really think that homeschooling would be alot better for me.. anyone no what i should do? Any advice would be nice
2007-01-03 08:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by kulpbre 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
talk to a teacher at school or get some mental help.
A girl of your age should be having fun as well as studying and all in an area ie school where you can mix and communicate with people your own age.
And lets be honest the most you will catch is flu and that is not so bad and gets you a few days off:))
Please don't lock your self away through fear,get help
2007-01-03 08:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by papy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The school you are going to right now isn't the problem, you are the problem. YOU are too young to be shut up in a house where you are comfortable. You need some serious counseling. No not an institution, (I work in one) and you don't fit for that, but you do qualify for getting help from a counselor. And do it NOW! QUIT blaming the school for all your problems, as there is something else going on in you that is keeping you from having fun! If the school is causing you the problems, then go to the school counselor and talk, talk, talk, talk and talk until one of them, the adults, listens to you! I had the same problem in school, i wasn't popular, because I came from a poor family! I know all about being made fun of, not belonging, and feeling all alone. But later, when I got much older, I realized it wasn't the "other people" causing me the problem. It was me, the way I thought about what they were saying. Very difficult to learn, but makes you feel so much better and allows you to have the fun at school that you deserve!
2007-01-03 17:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to your mom. Homeschooling is up the parents, not the child.
Unfortunately, there is sickness all around us. It doesn't matter if you're in school or shopping at the mall---you're bound to get sick at times!
Maybe you can take vitamins before school and take hand sanitizer with you. Use the sanitizer in between classes.
Relax, listen to your mom and don't worry so much! âº
2007-01-03 17:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ ☆ StarLiteGrl~98☼1 ☆ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your mom is wrong. she cant determin anything you feel. i felt the same way when i first started high school. i still dont like my school. im in the 10th grade now and my mom always told me i was happy, but i told her that 2 people cant share a brain. your mom is not you, she's not at school with you and she cant control your thoughts. cause i know moms can get on our nerves. about the home schooling, dont. it will make it even harder to function in the real world, cause youll always be by yourself. mean people, just think of it this way: that they have no life and that they make fun of others to make themselves feel better. their oppinion about you does not matter, and ignoring them doesnt help, its hard to ignore someone who is talking about you or directly to you, i suggest that you go to a different school instead of homeschooling. its not your fault, alot of people feel the same way you do. i hate going to school cause most of the people at my school,...are stupid, and they are mean to me too. thats why i listen to others when they are feeling down.
2007-01-03 17:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age you need to be mixing with people your own age. Talk to a counselor at your school and get some help.
2007-01-03 17:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hated it too. but it will end soon. try finding a hobby or sport.
2007-01-03 18:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋