I talked with a guy overseas and he even called me a few times while he was there,and he even asked me to go out with him, and meet up when he got back, but then when he came back, this girl from another state started leaving comments on his profile that seemed a little relationship-y, and put some pictures up of the two of them holding hands, ect...and I was like WTF, you did not tell me you had a g/f, and your profile says single...then he put his profile on private!! Was he lying the whole time, or was this something that came up suddenly?? I'm shocked he didn't tell me...
2007-01-03 08:51:38 · 19 answers · asked by googlegirly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes private and you cant see his profile, then you're not his friend.
i think thats a big enough sign that says go away. why arent you his friend? dont have a myspace? make and and ask to be his friend. if he denies, forget him.
2007-01-03 08:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, to start off, make sure that you have the whole story. I mean, this could all be a misunderstanding that you will regret. On the other hand, he could be lying to your face ( the private symbol kind of gives it away) . So, I think the best way to solve this is to ask him face to face and if you still don't beleive/trust him, drop him just like that because you don't deserve someone that cheats (and neither does the other girl; I doubt she even knows) goood luck
2007-01-03 08:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by u*no*me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was lying to you the entire time.....
that crap happens with the internet...I met my boyfriend online and I guess I just got extremely lucky because we're perfect for each other and best friends...which makes being a couple so much better!
You just need to be careful with the internet....remember people can be anything/anyone they want to be when they're hiding behind a computer screen.
Signed
Cher
haha, see Im a famous singer now!
2007-01-03 08:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably lying the whole time...they do that...you caught him and now he's hiding his profile from you. ask yourself if nothing wrong was going on then why hide it? be glad you found out now rather than later...one thing for sure she didn't or doesn't know about you either...email her and let her know just what her sweetie's been up to.
2007-01-03 08:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by ?! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he's decided that the other girl is the one he wants, and he isn't adult/mature enough to just tell you so. So, he's taking the cowardly way out.
Forget about him. He's apparently a jerk, and you're lucky to have found out.
2007-01-03 08:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be lying, or he might have been flirting with lots of girls then he settled for just one, in the instance, girls do this kind of things too, I've seen'd it happen to me, and few of my friends... both sex's
2007-01-03 09:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Life and time, we are given on earth is amazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying bastard. Ditch girlfriend. Heartache will be your next stop.
Leave him with something to remember you by. He'll either smile or wince either way if you cant make it big make it deep.
2007-01-03 08:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems he was playing with your affections. You are better off without him. It could be worse, you could be the other girl instead of the smart girl that got his number so quickly.
2007-01-03 08:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by D N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is in a relationship. He's not single.
He was lying the whole time.
2007-01-03 08:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was lying the whole time.. leave him alone and find a guy that wont be so sleazy :) :) :)
2007-01-03 08:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋