Okay what i did to turn the guy off in my opinion was i didnt act myself, my friend told me i should be more calm and reserved and not be so outgoing kinda lay off a bit, i did that but he seemed to be atracted to fun goofy girls which i am naturally. I didnt say anythang bad i just turned him off i want to know what i should do to get him to look at me in a different light????
2007-01-03 08:40:13 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey My Dear, the first thing you must do is stop listening to your friends, if anyone ever tells you to be some one your not then that's never good advice. If a person is going to like and Love you then they should have an opportunity to meet and deal with the REAL YOU on a daily basis. Your friend has way too much game. Now, what you need to do is just Simply Be You.... Maybe you could call him and invite him out doing something you know he would enjoy just as much as you. NO worries... just be you...I'm sure if he saw something in you once, he'll see it again. This time don't confuse him, guys have a hard enough time as it is just trying to understand us.
2007-01-03 08:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to "try" to get a guys attention, but after realizing it didnt work, i just let had a "whatever happens, happens" attitude about things and made sure not to expect anything. after that attitude change, i had guys left and right and finally found the one. Your friend is right, guys sense when you try too hard, and believe it or not, they like the chase. After someone has an impression of you, usually thats hard to change especially if they havent known you long. just act natural and maybe he'll notice the real you, but dont push it.
2007-01-03 08:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like a pretty straight forward one to answer. Just ditch the 'act' and be yourself. This way, if he still isn't attracted to you, you know it wasn't meant to be. Also, when you 'act' differently and the guy falls for you, he is falling for the facade, not the real you and eventually, there's going to be heck to pay. If it doesn't work out, forget about it and move on.
2007-01-03 08:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As stupid as it sounds, you should not DO aything. Hopefully, you want him to like YOU. You should always be your self. Atleast then you know you were not his type. however, itis not uncommon to be different around those you are attracted to. It happens. I would just suggest that from now on you act yourself. If he does not come on to you then, i bet some else will. Be your self around him. Thats the only way to find true happiness in love. othr wise you are lying to him and your self and no good comes from lies. good luck
2007-01-03 08:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by tomuchthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of there are any tried and actual strategies for this. men sort of make up their minds quite quickly as to who they desire. issues which could help you're: exhibiting him you're a giving individual, with the aid of a job or volunteering, continuously looking intense-high quality, being a delightful provide and take sort of companion, and straightforward activity.
2016-10-19 10:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act nuturally and try not to win him back. Just hang out where he does but don't talk to him unless he talks to you. Or tell him what you just posted. ANd ask for the second chance.
2007-01-03 08:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by angiwilltwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't pay him any attention. You might be overdoing it without noticing your overdoing it. When he sees your not paying him any attention and others are interested he'll come around. Nobody wants what others dont want.
2007-01-03 08:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cook and give up some good Bootie :P
2007-01-03 08:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself..the right one will fall in love with who you are not what you are trying to be.
2007-01-03 08:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mara D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut the slang...heh. bummer. if he dont like you, probably he's not the one.
what is so hard about being urself?just......be urself.
2007-01-03 08:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋