My friend says she's going to use a pic of her cousin from another state (with her permission) and set up a bogus myspace account to trap her BF into hitting on her and eventually suggest that they meet to prove he's unfaithful. She already KNOWS he's a dog, and I dont think this necessary. Yes, the guy is wrong, but I think this is kinda shady too. Do you thinnk she'd be wrong to lure him into this, or would her actions be justified to prove her point and have frist hand proof of his cheating? By the way, I know this sounds very juvenile, but she's 22 and he's 24. Sad, I know.
2007-01-03 08:36:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it would be wrong but she better be for sure he's cheating. I mean she needs proof and if she catches him in the act he'll have a hard time denying it. So even though it is a little odd to go through all that trouble, I don't think it's wrong because she wants the proof.
2007-01-03 08:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sad. Yes, juvenile. So unnecessary. What makes her think she needs to prove anything? If you think the guy's a dog, dump him and move on. You don't have to prove it. It's not a court hearing. Why do women think they don't have the right to just trust their feelings and make decisions based on them? What a ridiculous bunch of nonsense for her to go through. Who cares if he is or he isn't? What he IS is somebody that she doesn't want to be with because she doesn't trust. Belive me, that's enough.
2007-01-03 08:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what it seems, the trust is gone, so the relationship is pretty much over. Now she's just concerned with catching him in the act. It's sneaky, but as long as she doesn't come on to him too strongly. Let him make all the first moves, then see where this goes.
2007-01-03 08:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nina Abb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a way she's wrong then again she is right.Now and days us women have to do so much to keep our men to be faithful. Remember it is hard enough to trust them and they are very sneaky and slick when it comes to telling the truth.
2007-01-03 08:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GBH = grievous actual harm (aka, attack) Is he suing you privately, or is he pressing quotes in the path of the police? if so, it truly is probable that the CPS will try to get him to drop the case. The court docket equipment cant safeguard the type of GBH situations dealing with. I have faith you have tried to apologise for hitting him?
2016-10-19 10:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kind of childish. If she doesnt trust him why is she wasting her time ?? Although if she is gonna confront him she should have some kind of proof. And she must have it allready if she thinks hes cheating, so why play games ??
2007-01-03 08:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
and it's a good way for her to find out just how he really is
sad? yes
will it prove to her what a dog he really is? yes
would she feel the need to do it with a great guy? no
2007-01-03 08:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already know that this is beneath your friend. If she thinks that hes cheating she should confront him. Call him out on the reasons that she believes this. ie: late nights out. and strange phone numbers. If this gets her nowhere and she is still that insecure with her realtionship then she probably shouldnt be in it.
2007-01-03 08:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by mama going crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is sad.. but if she just wants the full proof that he is doing this then let her do this.. Myspace is such a sad thing.
2007-01-03 08:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she alreadys knows he's a dog, she needs to stop wasting time on him and let it go.
2007-01-03 08:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋